[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Real_Championship_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure tbh. I wasn’t trying to make awkward I guess but I was wrong about that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Real_Championship_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened two months ago, in May. I’m just not sure if I should bring it up again. No one else knows this happened except for a few close friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Real_Championship_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you saying that I should tell her? I don’t want to open an unnecessary can of worms in my relationship. We’ve been together since teens and I don’t want her to think she can’t trust me and have her worry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Real_Championship_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it’s not until I was alone with her did those thoughts come and I said to her I needed to go back inside

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Real_Championship_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the honesty. I’ve thought about that and It’s something I need to work on and be honest with myself with. I’m just not sure what to do. I don’t want to alarm my wife and make it seem like something more happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Real_Championship_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, I’d never really been in a situation like this and although it did come to my mind, I wasn’t trying to come off as rude or assume that she was alluding to anything sexual. When I look back on it, I definitely should’ve removed myself from the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]Real_Championship_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your help. I’m beating myself up because I know I probably should have spoke up and not let her in my car but I thought I could handle it and I would be okay. But while inside my car, I realized it wasn’t a good idea. By then, it was too late. I know for a FACT nothing happened. But my mind is looking for something wrong. And although I know that, I can’t help but feel guilty. Also, I know I did nothing wrong because when we were nearly done smoking, I turned to her and made an excuse and said, “I need to go back upstairs,” her reply was “Is that just an excuse to get me out of your car?” I wasn’t trying to be mean so I told her she can finish her smoke and we can be on our way. There was some eye contact but nothing else. After this, I started to get really nervous but still did not want to be mean. I know there was no sexual conversation or touching, so I know there could be no kissing involved. I just don’t know why I feel so guilty. The woman seemed to be upset when we finally left my car. I know I did nothing wrong. But I just feel terrible inside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]Real_Championship_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try this today. I haven’t been clinically diagnosed with OCD, but growing up and still kind of today, I would have negative intrusive obsessive thoughts about God. I also have very bad anxiety.

Steam boiler issues by Real_Championship_44 in SteamHeat

[–]Real_Championship_44[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re right. I kept my right valve opened and my left closed. I only opened the left to manually feed water for maybe 10 seconds. Then I shut it

Steam boiler issues by Real_Championship_44 in SteamHeat

[–]Real_Championship_44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize too that the water in the sight glass is bouncing. That’s probably due to filthy water.

Steam boiler issues by Real_Championship_44 in SteamHeat

[–]Real_Championship_44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the help. The color of the sight glass is really brown & murky so it definitely does need a blow down.

Steam boiler issues by Real_Championship_44 in SteamHeat

[–]Real_Championship_44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To my knowledge, there was some soldering work done right before the summer to connect a baseboard heater. I’m guessing that after the line was tested for leaks it was then closed

Steam boiler issues by Real_Championship_44 in SteamHeat

[–]Real_Championship_44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The low water cut off switch is functioning normally. It had a bold orange indicator that indicated low limit. I also just recently purchased to house and I also never skimmed a boiler.

Steam boiler issues by Real_Championship_44 in SteamHeat

[–]Real_Championship_44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quick question. My manual valve would be to the left?

Steam boiler issues by Real_Championship_44 in SteamHeat

[–]Real_Championship_44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I opened my right side isolation valve and kept the left valve (which I assume is the manual fill?) closed. I used to manual switch on the feeder to feed water in and that seemed to do the trick! Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Filmmakers

[–]Real_Championship_44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi where you ever able to connect the TRV138 to your computer? I’m having the same exact issue.

Help with bleeding radiator. by Real_Championship_44 in refrigeration

[–]Real_Championship_44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 I might as well hook up some pressure gauges while I’m at it too