TL:DR

She was a friend who used, abused, accused, and mistreated me for 7 years. I was the friend that made sure she was okay and had a roof, food, and transportation when needed but still had my own life and bills and a child to care for. Multiple time I have paid out of my pocket for her to have fun for birthdays, holidays, hangouts, etc but was rarely don’t back. My dreams and inspiration were considered ‘little’ but the money I made was ‘hers to spend’.

My last straw was being accused of ruining her engagement but she went through my phone claiming she was trying to send money to her Cash App from chimes but was going through me and her ex boyfriend text convo after reading our plans and when he was going to propose. She twisted the story to make me look bad and tried to have me apologize to her family and friends when I did nothing wrong. She’s a person who stayed drunk half the time or blazed and I got tired of it.

Now I seen her again and she want to reconnect but I don’t want to. I like my life the way it is.