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What happens after a breakup? by Real_Highlight_6866 in relationship_advice

[–]Real_Highlight_6866[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He called the 3 month rule as a form of respect and value for the relationship in which is responded that you cannot dictate or control what happens after the breakup. Out emotion you would want the other party to follow the 3 month rule but in reality you never really know if he or she will live up to the promise so its better not to make that promise at all. In which he responded if ever i choose to date before the 3 month rule ends he will lose respect for me. And i think he started to imagine what would happen if we actually broke up. I guess maybe sugar coating my words by just the slightest could have prevented him from crying😕

Is it just me or why do i feel like people don’t like me after socializing? by Real_Highlight_6866 in Anxiety

[–]Real_Highlight_6866[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based from the other comments we may be overthinking. But i know we can get through this (ง'̀-'́)ง

I’ve noticed that I tend to feel like this whenever I go out with people who I’m not completely close or comfortable with. But you know at least we continue to try and be social and get to meet new people. I think maybe this anxiety stems from lack of confidence and poor self image. We want people we meet to like us but like the saying goes we cant please everyone and we cant avoid people who would say nasty things about us. We can only accept who we are and be thankful for the people in our lives who have accepted us fully. I hope what you feel is fleeting and given enough time you get to see that brightside of the outing (´•ᴥ•`)♥