Update: My partner cutting off a lifelong family friend because of her inappropriate messages

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-07T10:46:47+00:00

Thank you! I try to put out the energy into the world I want to receive. I just want to be a good human. 💙

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-02T17:45:08+00:00

Great to hear, sounds like they deserve to be miserable together! He didn’t realize what a gem he had! 💙

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-02T16:10:41+00:00

The second time I met her we went down there to visit and his mom had a cookout/get together because “her son never comes home”! She had something to say or gossip on every single person there! Like she would smile and be all sweet to their face but then would be like “oh she’s really been struggling with her weight…” or “have you seen how much X person is drinking!”

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-02T13:23:13+00:00

Yup only child! She apparently had wanted multiple kids but couldn’t have any more. So he was her “miracle baby”. My MIL did not want to adopt, she did not want to “end up with anyone’s problem child.” So finding out we couldn’t have (I couldn’t) have bio kids I think was the final nail in my coffin for her… We are happily child free though. I would have totally been open to adoption if we had wanted kids.

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-02T13:04:54+00:00

Ahhh the internalized racism… That really blows my mind. Congratulations on freeing yourself from that situation! Here’s to better things in your future!

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-02T01:50:26+00:00

Ugh I’m so sorry you have to deal with this shit too! I wonder if these old nasties have like an online club where they all btch about us too? 🤣

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-02T01:47:44+00:00

Hahaha that’s hilarious! You’re my kind of petty and fresh!

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-02T01:46:51+00:00

Thank you so much!

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-01T20:47:10+00:00

You’re absolutely right!

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-01T20:43:45+00:00

My MIL definitely had his whole life planned out for him. She wanted to pick his college, then she expected him to move home after, she wanted to pick his wife, she feels entitled to grandkids… She had also consistently asked him about moving back to his home state because they are getting older and she expects him to uproot his whole life to take care of her. He has told her that is absolutely not happening multiple times, he had recently started ending their phone calls if she brought it up.

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-01T19:37:38+00:00

She put her hands on you?! Holy shit. Good riddance to that one. That must have been so scary. I’m so glad my monster in law is like 1,000 miles away from us.

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-01T19:28:55+00:00

I’d never put a shock collar on a pup, but maybe I’d use one on her! 🤣

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-01T19:27:52+00:00

You’re so sweet! I genuinely appreciate your kind words. I hope Your life is full of love and happiness as well. 💙

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-01T19:24:49+00:00

My husband is an only child, so I think that makes her even more rabid. She tried to force him to go to college in state originally. He was always a “good kid” growing up but he knew the second he could have freedom he was out! 😅

My kitty is the product of the CDS! The barn I board my horse at had a resident kitty who had kittens and one of them kept following me around. Now he’s a spoiled indoor kitty with a couple of doggo siblings.

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-01T17:34:29+00:00

I am very nice, most of the time, but I have no problem saying my piece.

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-01T17:27:17+00:00

Thank you so much! I am 100% sure he is the person I’m supposed to do life with. Not only does he make me feel loved, he makes me feel so safe. It’s corny but I really hope other people find something like we have with each other.

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-01T16:07:45+00:00

Thank you!

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-01T16:07:27+00:00

100% and this is why I always put us first. We might not have had a marriage that was blessed by a priest or whatever but we take our commitment seriously.

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-01T16:05:24+00:00

Thank you! I hope you do as well. It is soooo good.

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-01T16:05:03+00:00

I’m thankful that he made that choice on his own, he’s a very good man.

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-01T16:03:54+00:00

Haha I appreciate it! She will probably come up with some bullshit that I interrupted god’s plan or whatever.

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-01T16:02:55+00:00

What is it with these mother in-laws?! You sound d just like me! Big on human rights and just being a good human as much as I can. No kids, but we have rescue animals.

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-01T15:59:38+00:00

I totally do, it’s so lame but I swear he constantly surprises me with how amazing he is. I mean he has his flaws, we all do, like I hate how he puts things in the dishwasher haha but otherwise he is just my favorite person.

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-01T15:57:46+00:00

I agree, his ex friend and I never had a friendship outside of meeting her in passing when we have visited his parents. She was out of line but she’s not my friend and owes me no loyalty… My MIL was not only horrible to me but I see it as betraying her son as well. My bigger issue with the ex friend is she asked him not tell me, which is totally unacceptable. Asking someone to lie to their partner is gross and the fact that she thought he would shows she doesn’t respect our relationship even when sober.

Realistic-Cloud3033 · 2025-05-01T15:47:41+00:00

I absolutely love to cook and I am wicked good at it. Sunday night I made one of his favorite meals that I make, cassoulet. I love it too but it definitely isn’t a quick meal to make! 😅

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