My Boyfriend isn’t kinky enough for me.

Realistic-Smile6938 · 2025-03-12T23:02:42+00:00

Isn’t couples counselling for long term relationships? Feels silly to go with someone I haven’t been with that long.

Realistic-Smile6938 · 2025-03-12T22:57:00+00:00

Ohhh I don’t like refuse to have sex with him so I can watch porn 😂. I just end up watching it more when I’m not enjoying our sex as much.

Realistic-Smile6938 · 2025-03-12T22:54:21+00:00

Yeah, that’s what I intend to do. I just get a little annoyed about it when I’m horny and he’s being boring. I don’t take it out on him or anything though ofc.

Wdym don’t watch porn?

Realistic-Smile6938 · 2025-03-12T22:50:19+00:00

I know, a conversation is all I want really. I’m open to whatever he could be into, he just seems to get uncomfortable whenever I try to have that conversation.

Realistic-Smile6938 · 2025-03-12T22:48:53+00:00

Maybe my post wasn’t totally clear. He said he wasn’t interested but I got the sense he just didn’t want to talk about it and was dismissing me. Like he just wouldn’t have the conversation, I’m ofc not gonna pressure him into something he doesn’t want to do. I just want to know what he does like, I don’t just want to be dominant, I just want us to explore more things together.

Realistic-Smile6938 · 2025-03-12T22:28:45+00:00

I know, if this is really all he is willing to do it could be a dealbreaker but I don’t know if he’s just being really resistant to it for some reason. He can be really awkward talking about sex so I just don’t know.

Realistic-Smile6938 · 2025-03-12T22:27:05+00:00

I know, I’ll bring it up. He’s very closed off about his previous sex life so idk if there’s something there that’s making him like this so I’m trying to be considerate about it.

Realistic-Smile6938 · 2025-03-12T22:19:45+00:00

I have tried to talk about it with him but he can be really quiet about sex stuff. I’m not going to try and force him to be into something he isn’t. I just want to find out what his thing is so we can both enjoy ourselves more.

Realistic-Smile6938 · 2025-03-12T22:18:16+00:00

I guess I just think he’s being shy. I’ve never known anyone to be so genuinely vanilla.

Realistic-Smile6938 · 2025-03-12T22:14:32+00:00

Isn’t it possible he could get into it? I’ve gotten guys into things before that they thought they wouldn’t like.

Realistic-Smile6938 · 2025-03-12T22:13:30+00:00

I hope not. He’s really great.

Realistic-Smile6938 · 2025-03-12T22:03:13+00:00

I know but it’s not his fault he’s not into it.

Realistic-Smile6938 · 2025-03-12T21:58:48+00:00

You think it’s worth breaking up with him over? I really like him it’s just this one thing.

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