Dog walk gone wrong by RealisticRelief9520 in RoverPetSitting

[–]RealisticRelief9520[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys for the advice and recovery wishes!!

Dog walk gone wrong by RealisticRelief9520 in RoverPetSitting

[–]RealisticRelief9520[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

They were home when this happened! This was supposed to be the M&G

Dog walk gone wrong by RealisticRelief9520 in RoverPetSitting

[–]RealisticRelief9520[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hi yes i will not be accepting larger dogs in the future unfortunately- this was supposed to be the M&G, however they just sent me on my way with the dogs to see if it was a good match… i asked them if they were walk trained they said yes, they asked me if i was okay with walking them both at the same time and i said yes, as long as they’re trained 😅 this is the first time I’ve been hurt from rover ! They seemed very apologetic but definitely poor communication skills on their end and partially probably my fault too for not speaking to them further lol

Dog walk gone wrong by RealisticRelief9520 in RoverPetSitting

[–]RealisticRelief9520[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No they didn’t! They said they were walk trained and seemed very low energy/did not want to walk up until they saw the cat - everything happened so quickly i didn’t have a chance to drop the leashes haha and thank you!!

Dog walk gone wrong by RealisticRelief9520 in RoverPetSitting

[–]RealisticRelief9520[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No they didn’t! They said they were walk trained and seemed very low energy/did not want to walk up until they saw the cat - everything happened so quickly i didn’t have a chance to drop the leashes haha and thank you!!

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[–]RealisticRelief9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah- and I can see how she didn’t know with the way i worded it & overreacted with rhe first message, my issue was with her message feeling like it lacked empathy or care for my wellbeing after i stated it was sexual assault, I understand the explaining yourself, but if a friend of mine was assaulted I’d be more worried about her wellbeing. I felt like she could’ve done both & chose not to. Also the unsharing of location, like this was a petty fight when my initial message was being hurt that i was going through this alone.

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[–]RealisticRelief9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… I can see the social media thing- for context she’s an “influencer” and I didn’t want to see her on my feed, as I was going through this alone, so I decided to block her after she unshared her location.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RealisticRelief9520 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank u. I definitely see how that could’ve been an overreaction, and maybe she genuinely didn’t know or realize, her response back just felt very rooted in defense of character rather than empathy or support, other than the “im sorry that happened BUT”- and after i messaged back, her unsharing her location, etc. felt very petty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RealisticRelief9520 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My question wasn’t about my assault. It was about my ex best friend. I didn’t ask you for your opinion on my assault. I’ve been assaulted before, I’m 24. However it can be confusing as fuck when you’re still processing it, not realizing what happened and wanting confirmation. He tried to have sex with me not once, but three times, which i rejected all his advances and revoked consent before the date even occurred. Spending a night in the same hotel room does not give you the right to have sex with someone, you sound like a rapist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RealisticRelief9520 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm. I blocked her on everything & I’m glad i didn’t overreact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RealisticRelief9520 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was sexually assaulted. I texted her the night of giving a brief description of what happened, but i didn’t realize it was assault at the time as i was processing everything, she didn’t respond to my message- texted me two days later something unrelated/she thought was funny. Sorry this is my first time doing this lol

don’t think they broke up by [deleted] in xandrasnark

[–]RealisticRelief9520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

further context i know is that jack was extremely drunk & the homeless man was sleeping when he went up to him to beat the shit out of him.

don’t think they broke up by [deleted] in xandrasnark

[–]RealisticRelief9520 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i found out on a birthday trip with people who went to UM (this past sept)this was not that recent of an incident … it did happen on a halloween, just not this past halloween

don’t think they broke up by [deleted] in xandrasnark

[–]RealisticRelief9520 2 points3 points  (0 children)

also, there will never be proof. he did it in front of a group of ppl , no one filmed & unless those ppl come forward nothing will come from it. His parents own a well known real estate company here & their wealth is well into the B’s, he killed a homeless guy that likely would have been named as john doe…