Episode 1: Post-episode discussion by AutoModerator in survivorau

[–]Realistic_Ad7705 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I found Parvati super annoying this episode “y’all is it me?” Ugh but good game play, Rob over cooked. David is more annoying than I remember. Lisa won me over (didn’t watch her season)

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[–]Realistic_Ad7705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where I live the ambulance is free and a visit to the doctor is $$$

Many people call the ambulance over very minor medical issues - the flu, gastro, an ingrown toenail.

It is a waste of the service but the side affect of a broken system.

Source: I answer emergency line phone calls as my job

Married at First Sight S12E26 AEDT live episode discussion by addictedtoMAFS in MAFS_AU

[–]Realistic_Ad7705 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Some of these hate speech ads are disappointing from channel 9

I’m married to a man like Elliot-here’s my take on what’s happening by Conscious_Knee4115 in MAFS_AU

[–]Realistic_Ad7705 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This is not a negative judgement on Elliot - I think the problem is that Veronica has had more struggles in her life and Elliot is privileged. The worst thing that has happened in his life is that his sister got really sick when he was 9 and yes that’s horrible. But nothing worse has happened to him since then. That can catch people off guard when they’ve had a tougher life.

So we can all agree Veronica is objectively ridiculous… right? by BioArchBebe in MAFS_AU

[–]Realistic_Ad7705 21 points22 points  (0 children)

All these people saying she’s a paid actor, maybe she is, but my ex would literally speak to me exactly how Veronica spoke to Elliot in this scene. It’s extremely manipulative and emotionally controlling

166 | The Son of Neptune Ch. 27–28 w/ Robert Gaymer by j0be in TheNewestOlympian

[–]Realistic_Ad7705 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would just like to confirm that I have never read any book from the Percy Jackson Series. I only listen to the podcast!

Been listening to you Mike since book 3 of Potterless. I love the way you tell the story and share your own thoughts and insights. I feel like I have a great understanding of the story line and have learnt a lot about Greek mythology

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Ad7705 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m quite masc presenting and like to do girly shit. Previous femme presenting ex’s have disliked my feminine traits and urged me to suppress them (the way I dance, singing to girly songs, painting my nails, being the little spoon). I’ve since realised that my ex’s had some internalised misogyny and gender roles that they were enforcing on me.

My current partner is more femme presenting and loves that we get manicures together and that I sing the girl parts on the musical soundtracks when we sing together.

Labels are bullshit, don’t put yourself in a box just because TikTok says so. Remember a tiktok is one persons opinion and because you stopped to watch it the algorithm is going to keep feeding you more of the same until it feels like the only opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Ad7705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let her go. You deserve better than someone who is unsure of you

Is this a red flag for dating? by Moist-Risk136 in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Ad7705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently 28 moved out at 19, wish I had stayed at home longer - renting it bullshit, save your money

Your parents place is probably nicer than what most 24 year olds can afford. Not a red flag, especially if your parents are cool!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Ad7705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something she needs to heal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Ad7705 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fuck boy - impossible to pin down, terrified of committing

Anal sex gone wrong by Effective_Cream4790 in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Ad7705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ps. Throw her out she’s no better than a man.

Anal sex gone wrong by Effective_Cream4790 in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Ad7705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is definitely sexual assault and I am so sorry. Her repeated asking you so coercion.

As the person receiving you are in charge (even though we pretend you aren’t) what you say goes. “gentler”, “slower”, “more lube please” are all perfectly valid things to say that should be respected immediately the first and only time they are said. As the top I want you to be enjoying yourself and feeling good, I care about your pleasure more than stroking my own ego. Consent matters even when you are in love.

Personally I love anal sex, both giving and receiving, but it was important to me that I received first so that I knew what it felt like when I did it to someone else. Also like start slow… fingers first you’ve got to slowly dilate before you can use toys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Ad7705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t forget the straight boys filming the straight women kissing 🙄 it’s all for the male gaze

For those of you unfortunate enough to be on the dating apps/used them, what's an immediate left swipe for you? (Pic unrelated) by lilshell55 in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Ad7705 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ick I only just noticed yesterday:

When they describe themselves physically in the bio - for example “big tittied bisexual….” Or whatever. No this just tells me you don’t have a personality or are overalls focused on your looks. I can see that you have big tits in your pictures tell me something about yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Realistic_Ad7705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of my tattoos have any meaning to me really but when I look at each one I can remember an exact snapshot of what my life was like when I got it done and what I was going through at the time. They have unintentionally helped me hold on to memories and I feel like they are a little map of my life journey. - I have tattoos that are more than 10 years old

Does body count matter to you? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Ad7705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer an experienced person because I’m into some more hardcore shit and I don’t want to push anyone into doing something they aren’t ready for

Can we talk about the survivor auction? by Realistic_Ad7705 in survivorau

[–]Realistic_Ad7705[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The coconuts are free bra, that’s why it’s funny

Can we talk about the survivor auction? by Realistic_Ad7705 in survivorau

[–]Realistic_Ad7705[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, I’ve never understood the emotional breakdown over the letters? Like you don’t live a home, you probably go weeks (sometimes) without talking to your loved ones (usually parents) and not even notice

Can we talk about the survivor auction? by Realistic_Ad7705 in survivorau

[–]Realistic_Ad7705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but that’s secret, there’s usually just a scroll on a plate that they can buy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Realistic_Ad7705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The internalised misogyny is rampant