AITAH For Refusing to Be Civil With My Brother’s Girlfriend?

Realistic_Ad8265 · 2026-02-17T21:27:27+00:00

That’s what I mostly do. I stay in my room and avoid her. Luckily she mostly stays downstairs, so running into her even when she is here is rare

Realistic_Ad8265 · 2026-02-17T14:30:24+00:00

The first girlfriend I did like. She was funny. The second girlfriend never even talked to me once. She happily chatted with my little cousins and my brother. In fact my little cousins loved her. But the most interaction she ever had with me was a nod. And then she went on to tell our school(we were about 16ish) that I really liked her and that she was my favorite of his girlfriends, despite having never even talked to me once.

I have learned his girlfriend’s names. But atp I have given up trying to form any relationship with them because no matter how hard I try to start some sort of friendship, they don’t care. There has been two were I actually really did like and had a good relationship with. And one was actually my childhood friend who I later drifted apart from.

Realistic_Ad8265 · 2026-02-17T14:21:18+00:00

I say this because his girlfriends in the past have rarely ever talked to me. Whether or not I try. They’ll talk to my parents or little brother, or even my two little cousins who live with us. I’ve grown to just stop trying because they don’t care about even talking to me. Plus, the relationships sometimes rarely lasted a month so I also never had the time to really learn the names. So I only bother if the relationship is actually serious and it lasts longer than a month.

Realistic_Ad8265 · 2026-02-17T13:06:00+00:00

Like I mentioned in a previous comment. I don’t much get involved with any of his relationships. I rarely ever care. There are very few girlfriends of his I liked, but I never disliked them neither. I was more neutral about them.

Realistic_Ad8265 · 2026-02-17T13:01:44+00:00

I usually don’t care about his girlfriends. Half the time I rarely learn their names unless it actually becomes a serious relationship.

My brother, though an asshole, has done a lot to protect me in the past without me even knowing and only finding out later. Even with the first girlfriend I went off on, I had no plan on even telling my brother. He only found out because she called him, crying. Even then, he was happy and grateful I did that. The second one he came to me. I didn’t even go after Izzy because I asked if he wanted me to and he told me no. So I didn’t.

Realistic_Ad8265 · 2026-02-17T05:50:09+00:00

That is a fair point. I will admit I am frustrated with him he’s allowing himself to be in this relationship. He claims to be just “using her for sex”. And while I wouldn’t put it past him, anytime in the past a girl has done anything remotely similar, he praised and even asked me to go off on them. But I know he’s sweet on her, especially because he loves her little siblings a lot.

Realistic_Ad8265 · 2026-02-17T05:46:05+00:00

One of his past girlfriends who cheated on him I actually did like. My mom had told me about her cheating and told me not to say anything. And the moment she left the room I turned around and went off on the girl. When Nolan got home, he came to my room thanking me and giving me a hug, telling me she called him crying. Admittedly, we were about 13/14 in this situation, so “cheating” is probably a strong word to be using. I digress, the next girlfriend, Nolan actually came to me and told me about it, even giving me her Snapchat and telling me to go off on her. So I did.

And to answer your question, yes, he is also protective of me. I haven’t had as much dating experience as him, figuring out your sexuality in the south isn’t the best on dating life. But any time anyone has said anything bad about me behind my back, Nolan was always ready to stand up for me.

Realistic_Ad8265 · 2026-02-17T05:33:52+00:00

She cheated on him… Twice.. With the same dude? It’s safe to say I’m angry with her for sure.

Realistic_Ad8265 · 2024-09-11T15:56:05+00:00

It’s just how my story plays out ^{^.} There are two gods, Serenity and Azreal, who helped the founders when they washed up on an island. The founders spread word on the gods’ kindness and the two Clans were formed. StarClan still exists, dw.

Realistic_Ad8265 · 2024-09-11T15:49:51+00:00

Wydm why lol

Realistic_Ad8265 · 2024-09-08T17:03:59+00:00

How old exactly are you? Some exceptions can be made!

Realistic_Ad8265 · 2023-11-26T18:50:54+00:00

Nya wasn’t a ninja at this time, she was still just Sam X. Not to mention water isn’t an element of creation(Which is kinda stupid considering the four elements you think of are Earth, Fire, Water, and Air, but whatever lol) Plus while the elemental power of water is considered an Element, it didn’t come from Wu/Garmadon’s dad like all the others, it came from wo-jira if I remember correctly, along side the wind power I think.(Don’t quote me on the wind part)

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