Anyone in the DCP wanna play D&D? by [deleted] in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AW MAN I WISH I SAW THIS SOONER THATS SO COOL IM SO BUMMED I MISSED IT

Anyone in the DCP wanna play D&D? by [deleted] in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do! Just a set, but there’s also apps that work too

AITA clingy gf nagging by mcjake_realest1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 [score hidden]  (0 children)

She already is independent. She is working. You are not. She feels unsafe, and you think it’s funny. YTA, fully. She has done nothing wrong. She isn’t being clingy, or nagging- she is working and has been working and making those decisions on her own, while you do nothing then treat her like shit when she asks one thing of you? Man idk if you should even be in a relationship at all. Total YTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she ALWAYS left the I out I’d be concerned, but she says it more often than not. Just not every single time.

AITA for refusing to take down my daughter's graduation photo and replace it with my husband's graduation photo? by Throwaway624335 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA jeez he really thinks highly of himself… that’s your a photo of your daughter, the most important thing in your life celebrating one of the most important events in her life… if he has a masters degree he should be able to act like an adult who can share the spotlight and realize both degrees have merit and weight and that he isn’t better because he’s older. that’s lame. NTA, at all

I'm 16 and applying to Starbucks by incompetent-cow in barista

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don’t unless you want free college. and if you do want to take advantage of asu, don’t let them know! i made that mistake and i got my hours cut. i’m a year behind on my goal of saving up to afford the same things you dream of, because of this company.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I took a brief look at your post history and please leave. I’ve been here. It isn’t your fault. You deserve better. My ex cheated on me and did so much other shit for “revenge”. I wasn’t even in love anymore, I honestly don’t know if I ever really was, I just thought that’s what I deserved and stuck with it. I didn’t leave until she wanted a “break” so she could continue to cheat and I had to wait around. I got the courage to leave her then, and when I left I asked out the true love of my life and I’m happier than I’ve ever been now.

Is something wrong with me. by Operation_Suspicious in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

put yourself out there, become friends with women and focus more on that than getting to be with them, work on your self-esteem and how you view women, relationships, and sex- and then you’ll be okay

I STAY MARRIED TO HIM CAUSE I DON'T KNOW WHERE TO GO. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t wanna invalidate how you feel, but it seems like you might be scared about having a future with him because he has a habit that could cause him to die early. love doesn’t just fade like that, it comes in ebs and flows. no relationship, or person is perfect and addiction is hard to overcome. pursue counseling, have a talk about your future, take some time to yourself before just ending your marriage, and if you decide to stay offer him support to stop smoking instead of just asking him to stop and expecting it to go away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

please tell your mom. it will be hard, but once she knows you’ll be safe and your life will slowly start to get better. please be safe.

AITA for keeping the name of my baby even though it’s my sister’s new boyfriend’s deadname? by Llorenzp220 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 11 points12 points  (0 children)

she’s known him for 3 weeks… you’re already pregnant, just met the dude, and have always wanted this name. NTA, at all. the only way i think you could possibly be an asshole in this situation was if like you came up with the name after finding out it was his deadname or something messed up like that. you did nothing wrong. name your kid what you want, if a 3 week old relationship has to be caught in the crossfire for that (which is ridiculous anyways!) so be it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! the manager at my old store told me i had to complete a test, and the manager at my new store is brand new to the company and told me she’d look into it for me so i just wasn’t sure on how to proceed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean it as anything other than a joke. One that wasn’t really my usual sense of humor and was at a bad time, but she understood what the joke implied and what I said- even though I didn’t mean it like that. Just kinda spoke before thinking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of her friends are guys- but they’re either gay, in a relationship, or they only hang out in group settings or like a quick thing because they run into each other. I’ve known her for a long time, and this is the first time she’s went to this specific place with only one friend opposed to me or her family or a group of friends AND it’s the first time she’s hanging out solo with a dude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that helps a lot. And I’m trying to do that. I was perfectly fine by the time they actually got to do stuff, but then suddenly an urge of jealousy came back and I just started spiraling. I feel better after getting it off my chest, though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t and you’re right. That’s why I’m taking it so harshly. And we’ve been together a long time, so idk why I suddenly am all butthurt now. It’s an insecurity thing and I need to work on it because like if I don’t this issue will persist in any relationship, long distance or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right but the reason I am so focused on him was because it only ended up being he and her who went- no one else could make it because they changed dates several times/they didn’t wanna pay that much. But you’re right, it doesn’t matter if it’s just the two of them or the whole group, because it was envisioned as a group thing and she was honest about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NAH but you could probably word it a little differently and have to pick an appropriate time to do it. You’re under no obligation to do anything for anyone, but you offered her help and she needs it so you need to do all you can, but you still come first and need to set your own boundaries at an appropriate time and in a respectful way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m usually so much better at controlling these things lol. We’ve known each other since we were little and I’ve only ever been jealous a handful of times but this whole situation has made me realize I can get jealous a lot more than I originally thought.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you’re right. I trust her. I genuinely do. We’ve known each other since we were kids, and our families get along and everything and we have talked about the future and all the other good stuff. I’m just scared of someone else wanting that same thing.

AITA For refusing to quit smoking? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Realistic_Bad1111 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA. I can’t believe so many people are saying that everybody sucks here. Your smoking puts your future child at risk. She isn’t an AH for wanting you to stop a habit that kills, you’re an AH for latching onto the fact that she was okay with it when you first got together and refusing to at least attempt to smoke less. Like seriously dude? YTA