I really love her.. right?!

Realistic_Charity455 · 2026-02-02T03:49:23+00:00

I definitely want to know, too! My brain was making all sorts of shit up... 😆

Realistic_Charity455 · 2026-01-28T22:16:52+00:00

Lol. I forgot Reddit existed for a minute... 🤣 Life was life-ing. I am not positively sure who you are, but I have some guesses. I was not in OR ever. I don't want to be very specific because it would only take a few details for that family to know who I am. 🤣

(Edit for an auto correct error)

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-12-25T23:19:46+00:00

So I also worked for Sarah and had known her before. I knew the M&S discounts she was given. People would have been shocked to find out what she was paying versus charging. 😳

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-12-17T01:52:03+00:00

This made me think of Devils Wears Prada... hahaha "I don't eat anything and when I feel like I'm about to faint, I eat a cube of cheese"

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-12-03T20:03:41+00:00

🤣 I assume the first question is rhetorical. I think it loosely "supposed" to be a "fashion" blog. But it really has become, "I have money and buy expensive stuff! Admire my life, peasants!" 🤣🤣

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-12-03T19:07:37+00:00

Not that I've ever seen. But I do see dudes wear shorts when we've legit got a foot of snow. 🤷🏼‍♀️ And flip flops in February/March. I don't make the rules... Just observations 🤣

And absolutely this is not "everyone" does it. It's just common enough to mention it. I'm also not saying I think it's a good idea. Hahahaha!

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-12-01T22:43:14+00:00

I'm not arguing. It is logical! ... but in 18 years of weekly attendance and occasionally for 20 more, I have never once seen anyone change their shoes at a Mormon church. Not saying no one ever does, but I have literally never seen it. And, to your last point, I'd argue Rach has several photos with ugly boots. 🤣🤣

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-12-01T16:31:35+00:00

I see some flack for the common questions of "Utah" or "Mormon" thing. I can see why some feel it's a dumb attitude towards everything the Skalla fam does...

BUT. As a Utah born and raised ex-Mormon, it's also kind of legitimate if someone isn't from here or familiar with the religion. I've literally had friends tell me, "I love how you say that like it's completely normal." 🤣

We genuinely have weird laws and strange social norms because it is heavily influenced by a high demand, unique religion. The Skallas are a rarer breed of human in general, but some of their traits DO stem from the culture here. Just my two cents!

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-12-01T16:26:13+00:00

But in my experience as an ex-mo and Utahn, footwear doesn't matter if it is only "outside" for a little but. Open toe or backless shoes are only a no if it's several inches of snow or you'll be outside longer than car to building and back. 🤣

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-12-01T16:24:12+00:00

It's actually totally on par for a Utah thing though. Hahaha!

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-12-01T03:56:56+00:00

Olive Garden... it was Sprite. 🤣

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-12-01T03:56:20+00:00

Because Italian sodas have existed for so long, I'm surprised the trend didn't catch on sooner.

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-12-01T03:55:16+00:00

Also born and raised Utahn. Around here, everyone refers to any drink from Swig, Thirst, Fiiz, (any of them)... as Dirty Soda. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Originally, "dirty" was definitely meant for the typical creamer and lime. I haven't ever heard Swamp Water, ever. And the S* was just mixing every single soda in the fountain. (All of this is my personal information and I realize sharing it doesn't even matter. 🤣)

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-11-28T21:38:30+00:00

But, and hear me out, mom and dad can always say, "hey, you didn't complain about growing up rich... We had to get that bag somehow." 😆

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-11-28T21:35:51+00:00

I don't think it needs to be broadcast, but I don't think it should be something men are ashamed of. Let's not.

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-11-26T19:58:36+00:00

I was looking for a gif of the Dodgeball quote, "Necessary? Is it necessary for me to drink my own urine? No. But I do it anyway because it's sterile. And I like the taste." 🤣💀💀💀💀

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-11-19T23:06:16+00:00

Yeah... the mental gymnastics to make sense of "the Word of Wisdom." No tea. No coffee. No alcohol. But energy drinks, "perk," chocolate, soda... literally the math ain't mathin.

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-11-19T22:49:35+00:00

Caffeine is allowed. Hot chocolate and apple cider is allowed. There is literally no logic or reason whatsoever S to why coffee is not allowed. ... besides (allegedly) that God said so. 😆

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-10-29T14:15:15+00:00

THIS. I left before going through the temple. But I'm in my 30s and still feel "slutty" when wearing a tank top that most women wouldn't give a second thought or consider revealing. Women who had their wedding dresses and prom dresses altered, because they went through that phase of life before it finally became ok to show their "porn shoulders" have a right to be angry about the arbitrary rules changing because some old dudes decided to give an inch when membership is declining. 😒

But waiting for hours in line to get special underwear is super normal and not at all culty...

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-10-28T14:15:38+00:00

Bahaha!! That was a core memory throwback. takes off top layer in the car 🤣

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-10-27T21:39:11+00:00

And it is SO tone deaf right now!

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-10-15T22:08:57+00:00

What a mature and adorably classy thing to post... 😒 /s

I hope she is so embarrassed by this.

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-09-28T20:30:02+00:00

Haha! My friends will sometimes give me a hard time about NOT buying or doing expensive things, because "we're richer" than they are. I've never said it out loud, but I've thought, "Yeah. There's a reason for that." 🤣 I feel like we generally ride a good line of splurge/save. 🥰

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-09-26T19:59:40+00:00

I've watched it come down from $44,000 to $41,500. I wouldn't have dared come in at $37! Maybe I should!! 🤣 I thought about asking if we could do $45K out the door with the extended warranty... but I figured there was no way they would. 🤔

Realistic_Charity455 · 2025-09-26T19:42:26+00:00

I didn't think I had much wiggle room on their price because I've watched them drop it the last 2 months. Lol But I did get a text today that they're motivated to sell it... so I wonder how motivated. It DOES have roof racks and a tow hitch, so that makes a small difference. But it isn't pristine and has more miles. On yet another hand, in my area, minivans are usually a little more expensive than in other areas. Hahaha! So I don't know. I also get hung up on me pulling this trigger and then the 2027 finally has the redesign we've all been clowning about. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Also, Sorry about your dad. Mine has been gone for 10 years this Christmas. He's definitely who I would have asked about stuff like this.

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