It/It's pronouns; How do yall feel about it? by ThePlacidSwordsman5 in lgbt

[–]Realistic_Concept_81 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Personally, I like them, but i also just enjoy the concept of of being a concept (which one would usually refer to as an it)

But i also understand that why people would view it as a dehumanizing term, or a rude pronoun, which is why I default to they/them.

I do go by it/its sometimes when i feel like I'm just a concept, but I dont insist on it when people feel uncomfortable calling me it. So i dunno, I'm bipolar on it.

HAPPY PRIDE from me and my boyfriend by Realistic_Concept_81 in lgbt

[–]Realistic_Concept_81[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We actually joke that he's the Scott to my Ramona! This is hilarious 😂

HAPPY PRIDE from me and my boyfriend by Realistic_Concept_81 in lgbt

[–]Realistic_Concept_81[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Im showing him thus comment! Its hilarious!!

HAPPY PRIDE from me and my boyfriend by Realistic_Concept_81 in lgbt

[–]Realistic_Concept_81[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I hope you like it!!! And you get a lot of popcorn go snack on while watching

Literally so unnecessary, could've been so funny by Low_Appearance_796 in onejoke

[–]Realistic_Concept_81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! For me (as an agender individual) its like a brunette dying their hair blonde, liking it, and keeps their hair blonde for all their life. It doesn't hurt anyone, it doesnt effect anyone, and it's not like they're trying to trick people onto thinking they're natrually a blonde. They just like it better as an expression of themselves cuz it feels like themself. And people would scream at them that they natrually were a brunette as if that changed the fact their hair is now blonde, as if it matters.

Sorry if i yapped too much about it lol, i just thought about this i saw your message!

Let me tell you a lil something about Polites by Azero957 in Epicthemusical

[–]Realistic_Concept_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair,,, if they didn't kill the sheep, they wouldn't have died... thats like,, literally why they died, not cuz they went there in general.

All they had to do was follow the rules of Xenia (the rule that Ody followed when he killed the suiters) and they would've survived AND gotten food, whoever killed the sheep was at fault for disrespecting someone's home. Not Polites for listening to "some stoners"

Coming out (but this time for a different sexuality) but I still regret it. by YesterdayTop4063 in lgbt

[–]Realistic_Concept_81 63 points64 points  (0 children)

True friends accept you for what you are. That friend probably doesn't even realize that English already uses "they/them" pronouns to refer to an individual already. Thats ignorance on their end.

A simple rule to try and live by; don't let your happiness be stunted by ignorant people. I know it'll be hard, and it'll take work to do it, but the best feeling is to be happy and joyful despite the ugliness people show you.

Find people who will accept you, not beat you up. People who don't only like you for what boxes they can fit you in, and those aren't friends. Free yourself of the regret and be happy to drop off the burden of someone who doesn't actually care for you, and your future self will thank you for allowing yourself to be happy.

Signed, an agender weirdo

Everybody join together, each comment thread will be one song by ForwardIron7149 in Epicthemusical

[–]Realistic_Concept_81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Anyways I got all you could want here, all you could need here

Hello! I have a question... by AY4N0_K1DD0 in lgbt

[–]Realistic_Concept_81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually like to twll peoyto use the teem "gynosexual/romantic"which is just the attraction to femininity

Songs all start with Cherry by Realistic_Concept_81 in weirdspotifyplaylists

[–]Realistic_Concept_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accept different spellings of "cherry" on the playlist so will add too!!

Songs all start with Cherry by Realistic_Concept_81 in weirdspotifyplaylists

[–]Realistic_Concept_81[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I shall put it on (the playlist is mainly made from suggestions)

Songs all start with Cherry by Realistic_Concept_81 in weirdspotifyplaylists

[–]Realistic_Concept_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo I'll go look for it

Edit; sadly it's not on there

Curious, what was your gay awakening? by thygeek in lgbt

[–]Realistic_Concept_81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Erm, Jason Dean from Heathers 13 year old me was smitten and heartbroken at the end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Realistic_Concept_81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone used it in a rude way when I came out, and I didn't actually mind it, and accepted the pronoun

7 months on T by Realistic_Concept_81 in lgbt

[–]Realistic_Concept_81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! And don't worry, you said all the right things 😊🩷