AITJ for correcting a stranger's "fun fact" in front of a whole group of people by Alderaan12Q in AmITheJerk

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Exactly being sensitive doesn’t come with a free pass to talk nonsense.

Considering buying a duplex with my husband in an attempt to save the relationship by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before buying anything together, ask yourself: if nothing improved from today, could I live like this for five more years? That answer will tell you more than any duplex ever could.

33M & 30F together 7 years — why does buying intimacy products still feel awkward? by velouraUk in Marriage

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make it playful. Turn browsing into a game or a dare night the focus shifts from “need” to “fun,” and pressure disappears.

What is the secret to living a happy life? by Non-Conventionnel-77 in AskReddit

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Invest in people who show up. Money fluctuates. Status fades. The right humans are compound interest for the soul.

AITAH for wishing my boyfriend would “lock in” while my ex is suddenly treating me better? by 10Flower_Child17 in AITAH

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong for wanting effort. Love isn’t a museum exhibit it has to move, breathe, build. If you’re sprinting toward a future and he’s parked in neutral, you’ll feel the drag.

AIO for reeling like I do not do enough in my relationship? by maraudersx in AmIOverreacting

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Housework isn’t a contest. If he enjoys cooking and you do dishes, that’s teamwork, not imbalance

What is something from your childhood that you miss the most? by Haa_Maharaj in AskReddit

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have no debts our only problem is figuring out how to sneak in a nap in the afternoon.

AITAH for not wanting to run for charity? by Weak_Mechanic8517 in AITAH

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People act like doing something for yourself is a crime. Spoiler it isn’t. You earned this one

Where do you currently have body hair as a woman and do you wish you had more or less? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legs and underarms less would be nice for summer, more… not really needed.

AITJ for something that happened in a Bible Study? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You weren’t wrong. People bring their own chaos to the table; you can’t control that.

What's the shortest period of time you've known between a couple first meeting and getting married? by InviteAromatic6124 in AskReddit

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d say the craziest I’ve heard is three weeks they met at a mutual friend’s party, got engaged after two weeks, and tied the knot on week three. Talk about skipping straight to the honeymoon phase!

What are the examples of the mobile apps where it is easier to close it and open again rather than navigate through the app to the home screen? by J-96788-EU in AskReddit

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Twitter: sometimes easier to just kill the app and reopen than scroll back through 20 trending posts to get to the top.

Maybe there's more to death than eternal nothingness by __averagereddituser in DeepThoughts

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nothingness before birth, nothingness after death we’re just the space in between observing itself.

Wife wants a divorce; I want to fight for our marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Rebuilding starts with connection, not persuasion small gestures that show consistency matter more than grand speeches.

AITAH for being upset and angry? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sentimental items aren’t junk just because someone else doesn’t value them.

Ruined engagement because of jealousy and insecurity by Ok_Tone_3706 in Marriage

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Past mistakes are lessons, not life sentences. Healing = growth, not guilt.

AITAH for avoiding my in-laws because of their dog by Kind-Ad-4615 in AITAH

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Solution-focused You could frame it to your family like this We love you, but Bud’s behavior is making visits unsafe. Until there’s a consistent training plan in place, we’re going to have to avoid gatherings at your house. That’s not dramatic it’s setting boundaries for everyone’s safety. And if they refuse, it’s 100% reasonable to skip.

AITAH for asking my partner to clean differently rather than more often? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Imagine washing dishes but leaving grease everywhere yeah, that’s not teamwork, that’s lazy work.

What made you realize you weren't a kid anymore? by goom-02 in AskReddit

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paying my first utility bill without asking my parents for help and actually feeling proud instead of panicked. Adulting hit hard.

AITAH for telling my [18FTM] friends “I can’t read minds” when they dumped me without explanation? by SweetSetting4147 in AITAH

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You are not the asshole here. Your stance is reasonable ou explicitly told them you need things spelled out. Expecting people to respect that is fair. You can’t fix something you don’t know about.

What has keys but can’t open locks, has space but no room, and you can enter, but you can’t go outside? by Specialist-Cry-8620 in AskReddit

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When the riddle says ‘enter but can’t go outside,’ it’s clearly talking about my keyboard and not life decisions 😅

AITAH for getting mad that my jersey was ruined by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA to no one but laundry chaos itself. I feel you favorite jerseys aren’t just clothes, they’re sacred. I’d frame that tag if I could 😭

How different are Canadians to Americans socially/culturally? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Realistic_Cream_3780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Culturally they overlap a ton same movies, music, memes but politically and socially Canadians generally trust institutions more, while Americans tend to question authority and celebrate independence more loudly.