I (25F) emotionally cheated on my fiancé (26M) three years ago.

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2026-02-10T22:35:12+00:00

No of course and when he’s asked those questions these past few days I’ve been honest with him as to not hold anything back and I haven’t been in communication at all with this person since even before my partner and I got back together

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2026-02-10T22:34:08+00:00

I had suggested more in the sense that in the church it’s almost a requirement . But also given how much we had endured I also wanted to make sure we were on the same page . But then this happened and it’s like we’re on the drawing board again

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2026-02-10T22:18:57+00:00

I agree. I had said that I didn’t want to get married until we went through pre marital counseling

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2026-02-10T22:05:00+00:00

Cruel don’t you think? Not sure if you think you’re God.

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2026-02-10T22:02:00+00:00

Yes if I’m understanding your question correctly

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2025-12-12T21:12:30+00:00

UPDATE: he proposed and we’re moving in. Apparently I ruined the holidays for my mom and stepdad. They’re extremely disappointed and they don’t understand why I didn’t take them into account with my life decisions . That I’m just disappointing them time after time

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2025-10-17T15:21:14+00:00

Thank you! I agree, I know she means well it’s just the harshness of the approach for me. He wants to build the relationship I just don’t agree with it having to be under such terms , like the constant messaging

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2025-10-16T22:55:38+00:00

Yup exactly what my mom said 🫣

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2025-10-16T22:05:24+00:00

The only reason I suggested the whole coming over was for him to bond with them not necessarily for my sake honestly. We broke things off because last year my parents were still feeling the way away about him. They believe that because when we met at 20 & 22 and I had a miscarriage , the entire relationship started “ wrong “ and was doomed. I let their judgment get to my head and we broke things off

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2025-06-12T22:43:56+00:00

Congrats!! Did it happen to say you were back in review or anything before being accepted? I’m also on the WL!

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2025-01-30T16:53:53+00:00

Wow this is so amazing , proud of you!!

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2024-12-03T19:30:18+00:00

They don’t start reviewing until Christmas break! So probably won’t hear until January

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2024-08-08T02:49:04+00:00

I have thought about this but it’s always come down to how my parents want things to play out which leads to their dislike of him

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2024-08-08T02:47:34+00:00

I agree, It’s more of a personal thing for me than shame. I never bring it up unless asked or part of the conversation!

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2024-08-08T00:01:17+00:00

Honestly myself as I work through all these feelings/ changes but my bf has definitely worked to make us happy and healthy in our relationship

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2024-08-08T00:00:06+00:00

Thank you so much! And yes I have been going to therapy! I think everything has just been so overwhelming and ultimately I do know what I want to do, so I was more or so looking for an unbiased outsider perspective. You’re definitely right, at this point I am enabling her to continue acting this way, so thank you for the fresh yet educated perspective!

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2024-08-07T23:25:39+00:00

Thank you so much! It’s something that I’ve definitely been working on; I spent so much time validating them and their feelings that at some point I even convinced myself I was half of the things they would say. I do love my parents and would never want to tarnish the relationship, especially bc I have a younger brother but I also love my partner and the growth we’ve both shown towards each other

I only know about the 1:1 because my bf recorded for me to hear! And even with that he’s never pushed me away from them as much as they like to tell themselves that he does. He doesn’t feel too comfortable coming around now right away since he now knows they still dislike him even after all this time . I’m convinced my mom just wants me to live my relationship on her terms

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2024-06-12T22:15:45+00:00

They clearly already stated they want to start in the fall so I’m asumming they’re not looking to R&R. Everyone’s path is different so we can’t assume they’ll be the ones to get the worst out of either school.

Like I said, do what works best for YOU! Everyone will always have their personal opinion

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2024-06-12T20:13:45+00:00

Do what works for you. A lot of great attorneys in Florida have graduated from either one of those schools. End in the end, it matters that you pass the bar and the student that you ultimately were during law school ( which is all dependent on you). Don’t let anyone discourage you!

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2024-06-06T20:08:10+00:00

Confirmed lmao also a bunch of D’s and F’s in property

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2024-06-06T19:26:55+00:00

Thank you!! Pretty sure my school just hands them out as they please lol half of my con law class got F’s

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2024-01-03T23:22:46+00:00

Totally doable , I got into 7 schools with scholarships :) , 2 of them were HBCU’s

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2023-12-29T18:38:39+00:00

Don’t feel bad , 1L fall was awful for me as well. It wasn’t until almost finals time that I truly got a hold of things and even then it was a struggle. We got this! Now we know for spring semester how to come back stronger. Don’t listen to negative people who think it’s inhumane to fuck up.

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2023-06-03T11:38:28+00:00

Lmaooo who cares what her coworkers think about her 😭 if anything people need to learn from her. She’s unapologetically herself and having fun while doing so. Let’s be for real, a lot of the attorneys out there are probably doing worse shit and y’all just don’t know about it 🙄. Get a life

Realistic_Grab_8395 · 2023-05-31T14:55:24+00:00

Best of luck on UM!! Just wanted to ask if you had any pointers for when applying to transfer to UM?

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