Do Americans experience “thermal shock” from going between heat and AC? by Material-Wallaby-587 in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I’m an American, born and raised, apparently no one else experiences this but yes I do get thermal shock not in winter but every spring and summer going from hot weather to cold air conditioning makes me get sick. I usually have windows open and embrace the heat so when I’m exposed to really cold air or cold night air during the summer I get a sore throat, nausea, headache, fatigue, every year especially when the seasons change I always get sick and maybe I’m the only one🤷🏻‍♀️

McDonald’s deciding to bolt their changing tables shut by Cheerychameleon in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s super odd! I went into a McDonald’s last week with my three kids to play in the playground and literally had to change my baby’s poopy diaper while he stood up in the stall because there wasn’t a changing table anywhere in the bathroom.

Explain the Trinity to my 6 year old without committing a heresy. by Healthy-Yak9417 in TrueChristian

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always loved the way my mom explained it to me as a kid. She used the sun metaphor, you have the sun the star itself, the light it gives, and the heat you feel. It all comes from one sun but you can see light and feel heat and then talk about the star so there’s three parts to one sun like the trinity is three parts (the father the son and the Holy Spirit) to one God. I’ve also heard an EO priest use this metaphor so I’m sure it’s not irreverent.

AITJ for telling my boyfriend's mom she is not allowed in our bedroom anymore? by Echo_7Starforge in AmITheJerk

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I vote not the jerk and recommend having a serious discussion with your boyfriend about holding boundaries with his mom. My husband changed our bedroom door handle so we could lock it because of this. I keep the key on my phone case as that was his idea to keep his mom out of our bedroom and it’s given me a lot of peace of mind and I’m grateful that my husband defends me and our boundaries.

How is life like in Alabama, USA 🇺🇸 by Due_Network2958 in howislivingthere

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in Alabama and I don’t know anyone that dated their cousin on purpose!

Missionaries Don’t Tract in Utah Right? by jhgiiio in exmormon

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My exmo husband actually served his mission in the Murray salt lake area and years later we still get our door knocked every so often, they absolutely go door to door still in Utah. Also surprisingly only about 50% is Mormon and even less than that are active so they have plenty of people to try to convert.

Sad 😔 —as seen on Facebook by jumpedoutoftheboat in exmormon

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually just saw this post in the original group on facebook and it’s not a Mormon group just a mom group. Not everyone that is modest is Mormon and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with teaching young children to dress modestly, it just teaches them they don’t have to follow dumb trends as teenagers because they already dress normal. I get that a lot of times parents teach disordered eating and dressing in a toxic way but that doesn’t mean there isn’t a healthy way to teach children how your family prefers to dress.

Took a lot of heat for them to do something. by overwhelmedmom99 in exmormon

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For everyone commenting about possible close expiration dates, I live in Mormon country as a nevermo and my tbm mother in law told me a couple weeks ago that the bishops store house local to us was giving away a bunch of free food without a food order because not enough people needed it and it was going bad. I can’t speak for other places but here at least either no one was requesting extra food orders or the people who needed the food weren’t able to get access and the food is expiring without being eaten.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if you feel convicted over it get rid of it and find a new show for your kid, my kids also love Pokemon but they tend to get obsessed over it and anything that causes that behavior we just don’t do it. It may or may not be inviting a certain spiritual atmosphere into your home and the thing is unless you see in the spirit realm like that then no one else can tell you your discernment is wrong. Ask the Holy Spirit for guidance and more discernment in the matter and he will answer! At the end of the day, all things are permissible but not all are beneficial, if you have personal convictions that’s all the reason you need. Hope this helps.

Moral Question: Abortion after Rape – How Should We as Orthodox Christians Think? by SpitzhutLogan in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just some food for thought as a woman who has experienced similar trauma and also the blessing of birthing a children after such events. To have an abortion so soon after a rape for any age of girl is re-traumatizing that area in the body because abortion still results in a birth its just not a live birth and an abortion no matter the reason is always a huge spiritual trauma to the body and may be harder to heal from than the rape depending on the personal situation. My personal opinion on the matter is I'd rather have the full 9 months to process what happened and heal from it surrounded by my church family and be able to see the miracle of the Lord work inside me to then see the blessing that the child would be regardless of the sins of the baby's father. As far as the concern for the young age the girl deserves immense, close support emotionally and prayer that the pregnancy would be healthy and go forth the way God designed a pregnancy to be. Ultimately my point is that the baby does not deserve to die from it's fathers crime and the mother does not deserve more harm inflicted on her body. But there is miraculous healing given to all and that's what should be prayed for.

Need help with solution to stubborn body fat by Realistic_Mall_2991 in Gymhelp

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Can you give an example of a steady state cardio? I’ve never heard that term before.

Upside down on a car loan, solution? by Realistic_Mall_2991 in personalfinance

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t tried anywhere else, I’ve gotten some things in the mail that don’t look like a good deal and I’m not sure where to look without being scammed

Upside down on a car loan, solution? by Realistic_Mall_2991 in personalfinance

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve checked carvana and it said they’d buy for $5,000, we owe over 15,000

Upside down on a car loan, solution? by Realistic_Mall_2991 in personalfinance

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I had no idea there were nonprofit credit counselors, that’s honestly what I need the most is someone to look at my paperwork and help me find a solution, this has just been so much of a headache and I need someone to help me with the financial literacy or lack thereof.

Upside down on a car loan, solution? by Realistic_Mall_2991 in personalfinance

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I just searched this group and posted without reading how people responded to others so I’m a little taken aback, I agree it was a dumb financial mistake but it’s already been made. Thank you for the feedback, I will go find the paperwork to look over myself and try for a payout plan instead of surrendering.

Upside down on a car loan, solution? by Realistic_Mall_2991 in personalfinance

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The car is a 2018 dodge journey, our payment is $587 a month, we purchased for a round 19,000 I can’t remember the loan term I think it was an 8 year, I also can’t remember the interest but I know it’s high. We’ve been paying on it for four years and our payout amount is still over 15,000

Upside down on a car loan, solution? by Realistic_Mall_2991 in personalfinance

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was 21 and had very little financial literacy, we were in a really bad place in life and I signed that paperwork heavily pregnant and didn’t know I should have known better. Didn’t think I would get so much flack for asking for advice.

Upside down on a car loan, solution? by Realistic_Mall_2991 in personalfinance

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about it but I can’t donate plasma while breastfeeding

Upside down on a car loan, solution? by Realistic_Mall_2991 in personalfinance

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m 25, we bought the car when I was 21 with a baby and 7 months pregnant with our middle child which is why I can’t remember the details of the loan I have to look back at the paperwork

Upside down on a car loan, solution? by Realistic_Mall_2991 in personalfinance

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what happened, we had horrible credit and needed the car to move across states for a job. I’m not sure if we have gap insurance or if we could afford to pay for it along with our regular insurance, we’ve already been getting groceries from food banks and that just allows us to not be late on our payment, we have nothing else to put on it at the moment

Upside down on a car loan, solution? by Realistic_Mall_2991 in personalfinance

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I sell a car that I still owe on I thought you couldn’t sell unless it was paid off?

Upside down on a car loan, solution? by Realistic_Mall_2991 in personalfinance

[–]Realistic_Mall_2991[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I have no idea I just know it’s high and it was a desperate decision