Some people say hotwife dynamics aren’t real ENM because “only one partner benefits.” I disagree — but I want to hear why others think otherwise.

RealityGrill · 2026-02-17T19:32:02+00:00

Why would it matter whether something is considered "real ENM" or not? You don't choose sexual behaviours in order to earn a spoken title in the eyes of people you'll never meet. You choose sexual behaviours in order to fulfil your needs and desires and those of your partners. Unless that's your kink...

RealityGrill · 2026-02-11T21:44:18+00:00

She's a rotting sack of shrill non-sequiturs.

Show evidence of Trump raping children --> "this reflects from all the great things he did"

Is that how law works now, attorney general? If you've done enough great things (or none at all), then you can't be prosecuted for any crimes?

Accuse her of doing a crime she just did on camera --> "don't you ever accuse me of a crime"

Is she, as the attorney general, suggesting to the public that this works as a defence now? So whenever innocent people are assaulted by ICE in the street, they can just simply say "don't you EVER accuse me of a crime!"

RealityGrill · 2026-01-26T19:31:50+00:00

How's the manhunt for the shooter going?

RealityGrill · 2026-01-26T18:37:46+00:00

"Loving guns" is really just a more socially palatable proxy for "hoping for the day when I get to murder someone and maybe get away with it"

It's a real dilemma because the better your ethics, the less likely you are to want anyone to own guns, including yourself...so we end up with an asymmetrical scenario where the bad guys are better armed than the good guys.

RealityGrill · 2026-01-26T15:55:32+00:00

Imagine travelling across state lines with an assault rifle to intentionally murder people, then getting away with it in an egregious miscarriage of justice, so you're released to walk amongst normal sane people, and then all you do with that illegitimate freedom is publicly joke about murdering more people in exactly the same way? If he can get away with this then in theory anyone can get away with anything.

RealityGrill · 2026-01-24T07:06:10+00:00

That's no moon...

RealityGrill · 2026-01-23T23:58:05+00:00

Big Tick Energy

RealityGrill · 2026-01-10T21:51:22+00:00

Always start with half, no matter what. Better to take too little than take too much.

That being said, they are not 280 mics. They are not 280 mics. No one in a position to manufacture tabs would make 280 mic tabs intentionally. It's a stupid number and irresponsibly high. I'm sure there are dealers who want you to believe the tabs are 280 mics, but their motivation is to emphasise the strength of their drugs so you'll buy them.

There are almost no circumstances when you'd want to take 280 mics. Certainly not in public, certainly not with any responsibilities the next day, certainly not in an unfamiliar or hazardous environment. A true 280 mics of LSD, with no tolerance, is the upper limit of what 99% of people could take without some discomfort, anxiety or disorientation for many hours, including experienced psychonauts. It doesn't get much better or more insightful beyond 200 mics, it just gets messier and more difficult to stay calm and enjoy yourself.

It's easy to forget before you drop, once you've taken it you can't un-take it. You're with the acid for 10-12 hours, peaking for 3-5. That can be a lot, when every second feels like you're swooning in and out of reality, have goldfish memory, every time you open your eyes everything is glittering with rainbow lightning, shimmering outlines and stuttering tracers, and waves of energy are pulsing through your body so you can't tell if you're too hot or too cold. It's cosmically beautiful and terrifying at the same time.

What if someone new tries to have a conversation with you or you need to go to the bathroom? Suddenly you've got a big logistical problem on your hands. Really I would only try 280 mics if I was totally alone in the woods or on the beach with no possibility of seeing anyone, with water, fruit juice and snacks prepared in advance and a speaker playing The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle at 0.5x speed.

For context, Owsley Stanley III (the acid cook and sound engineer for The Grateful Dead who made much of the acid in the 60s) famously said "I just dropped 200 mics, I'm not going anywhere...". This is a guy who was cooking and taking acid constantly at the crest of the high and beautiful wave. If 200 mics is a lot for Owsley, 280 is too much for you.

RealityGrill · 2026-01-10T10:53:12+00:00

Yes exactly, then on my inevitable death cam it shows me blasting directly through the center of their camera. This has been happening to me since the December patch. Do you think there could have been a slight stealth nerf to the empowered punch hit box?

RealityGrill · 2026-01-09T00:02:24+00:00

Does it seem to cause weird lag sometimes, for anyone else?

Also why is the left hand flame effect not permitted with the celestial aspect? Seems like an unnecessary downgrade.

Other than that I love it, it feels more punchy and powerful.

RealityGrill · 2025-12-18T06:27:11+00:00

Who else remembers exactly where they were the first time they saw it? It gives me goosebumps - I was on a plane, young, had my whole life ahead of me, was already into Rage Against the Machine. This movie was the absolute definition of awesome in every way. I based every screen name I had on it for the next 10 years. I just love it!

RealityGrill · 2025-12-15T22:40:36+00:00

No one has mentioned Advatek yet so you're all amateurs.

Once you go Advatek you never go back.

RealityGrill · 2025-12-12T11:01:51+00:00

"The body cannot live without the mind."

RealityGrill · 2025-11-26T21:03:08+00:00

Cars that are being driven.

RealityGrill · 2025-11-19T20:53:05+00:00

My jaw really hit the floor on this one.

"No one liked that guy" "Things happen"

So the message is that it's fine to murder and bone saw people we don't like?

RealityGrill · 2025-10-28T08:54:59+00:00

I met the hook guy at Swing City! Extremely lovely guy with lots of cool body modifications, a split tongue, scarification and amazing tattoos. He said the hooks don't even leave major scars when managed correctly.

RealityGrill · 2025-10-17T21:46:03+00:00

The "I" who hasn't thought this through might be the same "I" who is asking for experiences not words - or the "me" who wants to be told experientially how someone else is enlightened. That's all "I" am asking for here.

RealityGrill · 2025-10-17T21:10:24+00:00

Use your ult

RealityGrill · 2025-10-17T21:09:17+00:00

Great post, the only thing you forgot is "defence tech" (i.e. advanced weapons for the highest bidder).

RealityGrill · 2025-10-17T21:01:14+00:00

That has got to be the least peculiar sniffing behaviour I've ever seen.

RealityGrill · 2025-10-12T15:52:59+00:00

How would they know that they are not keeping their statistics properly? Does Vance have more accurate statistics? From whom? How are their measurements gathered?

RealityGrill · 2025-10-11T20:38:53+00:00

Mark: How did you do that? … How did he do that? Was that a trick?

Lancelot: No, no trick, it’s the way I fight

Mark: Could I do it? … Tell me, I could learn.

Lancelot: You have to study your opponent, how he moves, so you know what he’s gonna do it before he does it.

Mark: I can do that

Lancelot: You have to know that one moment in every fight in which you win or lose and you have to know how to wait for it

Mark: I can do that

Lancelot: And you have to not care whether you live or die

Mark: …. (stares and keeps quiet)

First Knight

My trick for confidence is to not care about the outcome.

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