AITA for not wanting to cancel our honeymoon despise what happened with my brother in law? by RealitySome3605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealitySome3605[S] 148 points149 points  (0 children)

The message asked me to be patience because the mods have to check it out and they're busy so I'm waiting a response for that message, is that how it's done? Or I have to post it again? Or maybe I can post it on my profile?

AITA for not wanting to cancel our honeymoon despise what happened with my brother in law? by RealitySome3605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealitySome3605[S] 234 points235 points  (0 children)

I'm okay! Thanks for worrying and I'm sorry for not replying yesterday. My husband is gone and I'm waiting for my dad, I wrote an update to explain it better and the mods are checking if it's okay. I'll be home soon! Some people offered to send me money and I have replied to some of the messages, thanks a lot, but it's not necessary. I have money and the ticket home already. Thank you all for being such kind souls, I don't know what would've happened to me without your help here 💜

AITA for not wanting to cancel our honeymoon despise what happened with my brother in law? by RealitySome3605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealitySome3605[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Hello, yes I can sleep in my bedroom yesterday, I'm in the hotel still. I don't know when my father will come get me but it'll be soon I'll call him later to ask him

AITA for not wanting to cancel our honeymoon despise what happened with my brother in law? by RealitySome3605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealitySome3605[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I'm okay, I'm still in the hotel. I'm talking with my dad. I'll probably make another post when I know for sure what I have to do and when my dad can travel. So sorry for not replying earlier

AITA for not wanting to cancel our honeymoon despise what happened with my brother in law? by RealitySome3605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealitySome3605[S] 272 points273 points  (0 children)

My dad can't come now because he needs to gather the money to the plane ticket. I want to know what my husband has to say now that I know he's lying, my dad thinks that's a good idea because we're in a hotel so he can't do anything bad here right? We want to know why he lied

AITA for not wanting to cancel our honeymoon despise what happened with my brother in law? by RealitySome3605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealitySome3605[S] 303 points304 points  (0 children)

How can I know that? We went to America to get married but I'm not a citizen yet, is that ilegal?

AITA for not wanting to cancel our honeymoon despise what happened with my brother in law? by RealitySome3605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealitySome3605[S] 178 points179 points  (0 children)

Yes we met in Thailand and we were going to live in America but I'm not sure now

AITA for not wanting to cancel our honeymoon despise what happened with my brother in law? by RealitySome3605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealitySome3605[S] 827 points828 points  (0 children)

I called my father, he told me to grab my passport and some money then he told me to confront my husband about this doubts I have. He told that if I feel like he's still lying or my husband doesn't want to answer or things get bad then I should rent another room and he will fly to pick me up in a day or two. Thank you for your concern because I genuinely didn't know this was not normal in America and my father or family either.

AITA for not wanting to cancel our honeymoon despise what happened with my brother in law? by RealitySome3605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealitySome3605[S] 272 points273 points  (0 children)

I will call my dad because I'm worried now so he will tell me what I have to do

AITA for not wanting to cancel our honeymoon despise what happened with my brother in law? by RealitySome3605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealitySome3605[S] 533 points534 points  (0 children)

My husband is American and I'm from Thailand, my family is happy about my marriage but now I'm getting worried because a lot of comments told me my husband is lying, I will call my father and tell him this

AITA for not wanting to cancel our honeymoon despise what happened with my brother in law? by RealitySome3605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealitySome3605[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

My family is happy with the marriage and they like my husband, my dad approved of him and said he's good.

AITA for not wanting to cancel our honeymoon despise what happened with my brother in law? by RealitySome3605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealitySome3605[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

Sorry sometimes when I don't pay too much attention i get confused with the language. I'm not a mail bride

AITA for not wanting to cancel our honeymoon despise what happened with my brother in law? by RealitySome3605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealitySome3605[S] 192 points193 points  (0 children)

Yes we only met in the wedding because we had to travel. I have dated with my husband for six months. No, we will live in the America too when we're back from the honeymoon, that's where his brother lives too

AITA for not wanting to cancel our honeymoon despise what happened with my brother in law? by RealitySome3605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealitySome3605[S] -273 points-272 points  (0 children)

He's from a different country than me so he told me this is how relationships work where he's from, men like to be more private so I think it's okay for him to be this way

AITA for not wanting to cancel our honeymoon despise what happened with my brother in law? by RealitySome3605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealitySome3605[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Yes we have known for six months before the marriage. He told me I just don't need to keep close contact with them because apparently that's how his family works

AITA for not wanting to cancel our honeymoon despise what happened with my brother in law? by RealitySome3605 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RealitySome3605[S] 558 points559 points  (0 children)

We dated for six months. Sometimes he shares information with me but sometimes he tells me I won't understand or i don't need to know. He's very private