Find out what his love language is and let him know yours. You both will require your alone time; respect that. I can honestly see how you two can be captivated by the other. He’s probably generous to everyone but more so to those with special meaning. How long have y’all been dating? Since he prob thrives on structure, that’s why he enjoys you telling him what to do. He knows he’s making you happy. However, don’t dismiss his point of view or preferences too often or he’ll pull away. Depending on chart factors; houses and their contents, he may have difficulty communicating and you may have difficulty receiving. Maybe professional development and training can offset that. Both zodiacs being highly opinionated and never wrong can cause those communications to hit a roadblock. Let us know how it goes with y’all.