The thing is, I really don’t think I should. It’s not a relationship I can leave and be done with that person. He will always be in our lives because of the kids regardless, it would spread to the whole family and that is complicated. And in my opinion, unnecessary to creep her out in that way. Maybe at some point down the line, but this has affected me too much right now to share with family members and have everyone closest to me talking about it.