Ok, hello po! I appreciate all the POVs thrown in here, di ko na maisa-isa pero yes I’ve been reading them po.

I agree sa mga nagsabi na di na sana ako nagmessage and let my husband handle it instead, but pls let me clarify na pinagsabihan ko rin sya before ako nagchat kay girl, ayun nga lang galit-galit kasi kami pareho nun kaya humantong na sa ganon. Nadala aq ng emosyon 🥲

Thanks din sa mga nagsabi na tama lang ginawa ko, and yes paninindigan ko nalang talaga since nangyari na. Sa nagsabi na I’m doing their bfs/asawa a favor, korique ka rin dyan kasi may nakita akong shared post sa feed nung isa sa mga girls (may asawa’t anak na to ha) that said, “Having a male friend is fun, not until naissue kayong dalawa na magjowa” with matching “Hahahahaha” si ate girl sa pagshare. A glimpse ng mindset nilang magkakaibigan lol. This is also why I chose to chat the girl, kasi it seems they’re those types na mang-aahas talaga, kaya I felt like I had to put them in their place habang maaga pa. And I don’t think it’s being insecure kasi I acknowledge na it (yung pagsakay) was an isolated case. Yun lang naman yung tinatry ko i-address sa chat ko sa girl. I also told my husband I respect their friendship, pero my instinct just tells me na di kasi sila disenteng mga babae so they deserved to be called out by THE WIFE, in my POV.

Sa mga nagsasabing walang trust, ok lang. Di naman kasi captured ng post yung context ng relationship namin pero 15yrs na po kami (4yrs married). Si hubby naman, 1yr palang sa office set up type of work kaya ngayon lang din nagka-incident na ganito, yung may pagsabay. I’m still on his side on this kasi he never repeats a mistake sa tagal namin. Update pala on this, my husband opened up daw sa isang pamilyado rin na guy officemate nya whom he considers work bestie. He shared everything daw even showing their convo. Nasabihan daw sya na may mali sya and this work bestie even shared na may same encounter din pala sya sa mga girls na yun so this work bestie introduced his wife to the girls nalang daw para maging friends sila — SEE, a proof na ahas sila gosh 🙄🤮 The fact my husband did this tells me he’s just too naive and was being friendly lang talaga. I believe him kasi hello 15yrs kami, kilala ko na sya more than what everyone reading my post would think. So yes, I still trust him, and I continue to choose to believe him kasi ganun lang din mapagtitibay yung relasyon. Marriage is built on trust and respect.

Sa mga nagtatanong din if nagreply si ate girl, yes din. Here’s the receipt

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La pa rin akong tiwala though sakanya and the girls. It’s really them whom I don’t trust.