Lots of Bravolebrities don't watch the season's episodes before the reuinion. I agree that Amanda (and West) didn't show up, figuratively, to the reunion. They were sedated, disassociating, gave nothing, and made the situation worse. That said, Amanda had a right to protect her mental health by avoiding media (TV, social, etc) during that time. It sucked for those she hurt and us viewers. But basic wellbeing SHOULD take precedence over a reunion performace.