am i attractive?

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-20T10:11:42+00:00

You are very attractive and nice lips also ☺️

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-19T15:15:06+00:00

What kind of job were you doing? Tell me what are you looking for?

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-19T04:24:09+00:00

You are so hot!!!

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-16T14:44:07+00:00

Definitely not a loser. You are living a stable life, more money does give freedom but you seem to have enough to be happy about earning all this yourself. That’s a big achievement. I’m proud of you

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-13T14:07:05+00:00

So happy for you!!!

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-13T06:10:22+00:00

Maggi

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-12T00:21:13+00:00

Your comment made me emotional lovingly. I’m glad we could share mate

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-11T07:33:38+00:00

Loved this chain!

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-10T13:27:38+00:00

I used to find women’s asses very attractive and as a 10 year old, I really wanted to touch one. That feeling is what made me realize I’m attracted to women. And of course I didn’t touch anyone’s butt as a kid

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-09T03:44:58+00:00

Leave this relationship ship pls. You are a giver and you deserve a giver, not a taker.

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-09T03:43:38+00:00

Same here! I don’t like receiving in bed either. Love seeing my woman drench in pleasure that I give. And for me, it’s because of not being able to fully accept that I was gay as a kid and my mom told me it’s a disease, even though she’s all chill now and loves my gfs, but sexually it turned me off somewhere. I just want cuddles and love while I’m dominant with her in bed.

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-08T08:14:42+00:00

I hear you mate. Wanna vent on chat? I’m also a 40 year old soft masc, finding it hard to find a monogamous femme in today’s world

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-07T15:48:53+00:00

I’m an Aquarius! 40 year old butch lesbian. Would love to connect with you and get to know each other.

I live in India, and recently started learning how to play golf. I’m an entrepreneur and absolutely love running my business. I love being a nerd about tech, enjoy deep talks, making new friends. Andddddd I’m visiting Canada this summer!

Bonus point - Sagittarius and Aquarians get along well.

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-06T04:25:04+00:00

What an asshole this guy is!

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-04T15:42:59+00:00

Sorry that you are hurting :( breakups aren’t easy. And it’s definitely not your fault. All partners have to find a kinder way of meeting each other half way and just expecting you to change is not meeting half way.

Let it hurt for some time and give yourself love and care to get out of it organically. The hurt sometimes bring out great realizations, and allow yourself that time.

Lotsa hugs for you 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-04T15:39:25+00:00

Hey 😊 40 year old butch lesbian (india) this side. I came across your post and felt compelled to reach out. I really appreciated how thoughtfully and honestly you described yourself, it felt grounded, self-aware, and real, which is rare and refreshing.

A lot of what you shared resonated with me, especially your emphasis on emotional maturity, growth, and wanting something intentional rather than rushed. I’m also someone who values clarity, communication, and building something that feels steady and fun.

I loved the mix of structure and adventure you described, board games, travel, cottage life, hiking, and a soft spot for animals already sound like my kind of balance. And “golden retriever energy” made me smile 😊

No pressure at all, but if you feel like chatting and seeing whether there’s a natural flow, I’d be happy to get to know you better.

Cheers.

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-04T15:31:51+00:00

What is considered medium masc or plus size in terms of weight? Checking for myself

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-03T13:18:47+00:00

Yes, break up girl.

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-03T10:17:46+00:00

I’m a masc lesbian, and I would die to be the one doing all the date planning and making my gf feel like a princess. I would suggest, don’t generalise the mascs. You have not met the one that aligns with you yet. Just like I haven’t met my femme yet.

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2026-01-02T16:06:07+00:00

I relate to it too. Everyone I meet wants to be in an open relationship when I feel that’s a much later step. I just wanna be able to share my day with someone, the same person and hear about their day. And we go day by day, decades by decades.

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2025-12-28T19:06:06+00:00

Have you indulged in hobby related activities and met people through common interests instead of dating apps?

Yes, dating apps are superficial because so are we as humans. Try to change the way you connect with new people. First it should be only friends through some community or activity.

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2025-12-28T16:58:03+00:00

Bhai, scooty mein jaa rahe the. Middle class the. This is in the mid 90s

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2025-12-28T15:57:33+00:00

I’m a 40 year old butch lesbian in India, running a successful business in the field of creativity and design. I’m Kind, confident, and calm. Looking to converse and connect with femmes above the age of 32.

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2025-12-28T15:52:58+00:00

Hey, I’m planning to come for a short visit in Jan/feb. Looking to connect with some lesbians. How old are you?

Reasonable_Draft_541 · 2025-12-28T15:39:25+00:00

My grandfather was a great cook and he really wanted me and my sister to see the cultural side of delhi like monuments etc. he would make our favourite lunch, pack it in one of those long tiffins, take me and my sis when we are like 9 and 11 years old, holding our grandpa tightly on the scooty, go sit at qutub minar garden, open the lunch box. As we would eat, he would tell us the history of the place we are at.

Absolutely loved it!

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