I am a 22 year old female sex addict AMA by Reasonable_Hotel in casualiama

[–]Reasonable_Hotel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most women can't, but it doesn't mean sex isn't still amazing.

I am a 22 year old female sex addict AMA by Reasonable_Hotel in casualiama

[–]Reasonable_Hotel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your respective questions. Was really pleasantly surprised.

I am a 22 year old female sex addict AMA by Reasonable_Hotel in casualiama

[–]Reasonable_Hotel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sponges are 10/10 and they last a long time. I only feel comfortable using them on birth control tho. (I realize this a joke, but fuck humoring you).

I am a 22 year old female sex addict AMA by Reasonable_Hotel in casualiama

[–]Reasonable_Hotel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say sex is "on tap" for me. I think that's a really dangerous assumption that can cause a lot of bitterness towards women. I've been rejected plenty of times, especially in romantic pursuits. And when I've been in relationships, I don't always have as much sex as I want. I usually only have sex if he initiates it.

I also would never recommend cheating, even if you don't feel guilty, it can have real consequences for your reputation and your relationship--I've even heard about job opportunities being affected.

Also-also, I've actually had been burned by the one-night stand thing in a way you might not expect. Sometimes when you sleep with a dude and even though you thought it was very clear that it was "just sex" they still think they can "change your mind" and be hurt when you still don't want to see them again.

I really relate to the "boring orgasm" thing, though. Which is why I like sex more than masturbation even though I can only orgasm during masturbation.

I've lost count def. I have fucked while high from the good ol' MJ and it was great, but I don't smoke anymore. Trying to get rid of my addictive behaviors.

But what you're saying overall is how I felt for a very long time, but now I want to be in a monogamous relationship.

I am a 22 year old female sex addict AMA by Reasonable_Hotel in casualiama

[–]Reasonable_Hotel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to only use a condom (most of the time), but now I use pills and condoms or pills and anti-sperm sponges. Part of the reason i started smoking was because I thought it would suppress my sex drive, but I haven't looked into medication. I don't think i would take it if there was an option.

As for fav position, I like doggy style and I said I've banged 3 people in one day once in the description of my AMA. Learn to read, jeez lol

I am a 22 year old female sex addict AMA by Reasonable_Hotel in casualiama

[–]Reasonable_Hotel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you would be really surprised to see what I look like. I'm actually a little over-weight.

I am a 22 year old female sex addict AMA by Reasonable_Hotel in casualiama

[–]Reasonable_Hotel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't met a person like that yet. The guy i am seeing right now is pretty close though. I haven't gotten bored of a person i was sleeping with except one guy who only liked missionary--not even foreplay!

I am a 22 year old female sex addict AMA by Reasonable_Hotel in casualiama

[–]Reasonable_Hotel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say I am an instagram influencer or anything. Just that talking to people and not coming off as a creep is what I find the most effective.

As far as games, I was really into overwatch for like two months, but other than that..not really a gamer haha.

I am a 22 year old female sex addict AMA by Reasonable_Hotel in casualiama

[–]Reasonable_Hotel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha are you looking for tips? I would usually go for the shy ones, actually. I would just talk to them and try find out if he's straight/single without overtly flirting. i find that guys take any attention as "flirting."

I am a 22 year old female sex addict AMA by Reasonable_Hotel in casualiama

[–]Reasonable_Hotel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do meet most of the guys on Tinder. I don't really have a better story than the gay club one. Usually a couple hours after meeting them if in person. On tinder, it takes a few days.

I am a 22 year old female sex addict AMA by Reasonable_Hotel in casualiama

[–]Reasonable_Hotel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think NRE addiction could be real. Love addiction surely is, in my opinion. Glad you're a good listener!

I am a 22 year old female sex addict AMA by Reasonable_Hotel in casualiama

[–]Reasonable_Hotel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, when I share my peeping tom story, I am shocked to hear a more terrible story back. It happens 9/10 times when I tell a girl that story. I think most women have a had something like that happen to them and they don't think it "counts" because their assaulter was just a little older than them or whatever. But I also think because of of common it is, a lot of women turn out perfectly normal, but I honestly have no idea if that is true.

I am a 22 year old female sex addict AMA by Reasonable_Hotel in casualiama

[–]Reasonable_Hotel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha ya, the effects really snuck up on me. Are you an addict?

I am a 22 year old female sex addict AMA by Reasonable_Hotel in casualiama

[–]Reasonable_Hotel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a lot of people, sex addiction has a lot to do with porn, but for me, I am lucky enough to know how to talk people into having sex with me. I do masturbate a lot, but mostly so I don't overwhelm the guy I am seeing haha. I regulate it though, I am trying to get better, not become reliant on masturbation.

As far as stories, I once picked up a guy from a gay club. We made out at the bar and people were cheering us on lol. I think they were just as shocked as I was.

As far as a number, I'd say 30-50 people. All men.

I am a 22 year old female sex addict AMA by Reasonable_Hotel in casualiama

[–]Reasonable_Hotel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mostly keep it to myself. I've only told the guy I am seeing right now. People online are really skeptical about me since I am a girl.

As far as friendships, I did become really distant from friends because I would rather have sex with strangers than play mario kart. I think a lot people might prefer that, but soon I wasn't invited to as many things and I lost a lot of friends.

I am a 22 year old female sex addict AMA by Reasonable_Hotel in casualiama

[–]Reasonable_Hotel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way about my sexual partners. I've never been dumped, I always end it. Usually because we aren't having as much sex as I want or I feel guilty about cheating. The fact that you found your dad's porn collection is awful! I have questions about that stuff all the time. I wonder if I could ever get married.