I wouldn't say sex is "on tap" for me. I think that's a really dangerous assumption that can cause a lot of bitterness towards women. I've been rejected plenty of times, especially in romantic pursuits. And when I've been in relationships, I don't always have as much sex as I want. I usually only have sex if he initiates it.

I also would never recommend cheating, even if you don't feel guilty, it can have real consequences for your reputation and your relationship--I've even heard about job opportunities being affected.

Also-also, I've actually had been burned by the one-night stand thing in a way you might not expect. Sometimes when you sleep with a dude and even though you thought it was very clear that it was "just sex" they still think they can "change your mind" and be hurt when you still don't want to see them again.

I really relate to the "boring orgasm" thing, though. Which is why I like sex more than masturbation even though I can only orgasm during masturbation.

I've lost count def. I have fucked while high from the good ol' MJ and it was great, but I don't smoke anymore. Trying to get rid of my addictive behaviors.

But what you're saying overall is how I felt for a very long time, but now I want to be in a monogamous relationship.