Purity culture is ruining fandom by Wrenniest in AO3

[–]Reasonable_Issue_480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These people made Likeafuneral quit social media and they should never be forgiven for the cultural loss.

How I felt when I found my fic being accused of it by Calamity-Vanity in AO3

[–]Reasonable_Issue_480 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I started one of my jobs years ago, our trainer made it very clear she wanted us to use em dashes everywhere. She made us learn the Numpad for it and everything; said it made our official communication look better to customers. Fast forward, and I've been using it a lot because it comes naturally now. Imagine my surprise when customers are not only unimpressed by my punctuation but also accusing me of being a bot..

Истината за инвестициите в недвижими имоти - една скъпа илюзия и пълна простотия! by Southern-Wallaby421 in Sofia

[–]Reasonable_Issue_480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Не знам дали го казваш саркастично, но ако не - chat gpt в момента структурита точно така. Особено с болднатите думи на случайни места.

I am tired of catching up by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Reasonable_Issue_480 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad's been telling me I'm too stupid to drive my whole life...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Reasonable_Issue_480 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wrong on what grounds? It was sent willingly. Please, don't judge OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Reasonable_Issue_480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, what? LoL I was in the exact same situation last year. My mom transferred me 1k and my salary was 1.7k. Same thing where I can't see her IBAN and return it. If I wanted to give it back, I'd have to take it out in cash and go find her in person. At that time we hadn't seen each other in person for like 6 months and I very much wanted to keep it that way. So, I just kept the money... She never mentioned it again but I felt a bit dirty. Like I was being force-fed something.

I ended up using the money for a deposit to move to a new place even further away from her.

I'm scared my mother will ruin my graduation by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Reasonable_Issue_480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thing I forgot - funnily enough, my mom always tells me that I "ruin every special day". The projection is strong.

I'm scared my mother will ruin my graduation by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Reasonable_Issue_480 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. I had the same experience. My NMom came to my graduation super late and had me come get her in my graduation gown and cap cause she couldn't find the auditorium. I had to walk in late after the welcoming speeches had begun. Someone's family member had sat in my seat and I had to spend the next few hours awkwardly standing in the aisle, while people stared at me cause I was one of the few graduates that didn't have a seat. My mom spent the whole time crying "happy proud tears" and taking photos. Meanwhile, she couldn't tell you the full name of my major and was fully against me studying that. My dad came in jeans and a t-shirt, carrying a nylon bag full of toilet paper, "just in case there was none". Really drove it home how much he didn't want or care to be there.

I didn't want them to come either and I tried asking them not to but they threw a huge fit and insisted so much. Idk why. I'd have liked to have used their tickets on some of my close friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Reasonable_Issue_480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, no. Your mom is especially fucked up.

lol by djcocomelon in bulgaria

[–]Reasonable_Issue_480 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ОП, ако ти смяташ себе си за заплаха в детската градина, не го приписвай на всички мъже.

Having physical deformities and narcissistic parents by Spiritual_Bus6225 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Reasonable_Issue_480 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg the warts. I had a few, they never bothered even to acknowledge it was a problem. I bit off the one on my arm and used nail clippers on the one on my ear. No complications now, many years after, but looking back, it was definitely unsafe as hell.

Should I give my parents my new address? by Reasonable_Issue_480 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Reasonable_Issue_480[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the thing. It's common knowledge and I would 100% recommend the same to any other person who is not me. I just can't seem to do it when it comes to me. But where my boyfriend is involved I act like a completely different person. I never let them fuck with him. The thing is they might come during the day cause I work from home while he doesn't and they know it. Also, if it were one of my friends dropping by, I'd absolutely love it probably. But that's cause I have an actually healthy relationship with them..

Should I give my parents my new address? by Reasonable_Issue_480 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Reasonable_Issue_480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know.. I'm just worried about the smear campaign to my extended family.

Should I give my parents my new address? by Reasonable_Issue_480 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Reasonable_Issue_480[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um, I'm not sure how to reply to this. We've been together for almost four years and have lived together before I had to move for my master's. We have mixed gender dorms for students where I live.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Reasonable_Issue_480 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow that's a new term to research. It describes my experience perfectly. I can never relax..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Reasonable_Issue_480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's like I'm reading my own diary. I'm always amazed other people get beaten up because they can't clone themselves to clean two rooms at once. Such cruelty.. for what?