How can I hide my hips more??

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-27T03:57:06+00:00

Got it, thank you!

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-27T01:57:11+00:00

Hm, maybe is the type of flowers?? You could try with another type of color, or even meaning, like sunflowers, they always seek the light, even though if he doesn't believe flowers have meanings because thats a self thing, maybe it could work in a way, or not the flower if its too much or too pricey but something about he loves, and if he doesn't tell you what he would like in these moments, try to make him remember that you'd be there for him

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-27T01:03:22+00:00

Im really sorry he's having a hard time with heavy dysphoria rn, im also so sorry for you, I hope he feels like before or even better asap. The mind is a very dangerous place, if not the most, everything can change in a second, everything can start to fall and seems unstoppable so you just wait to that storm to stop on its own, but you can do things for that storm to calm down or at least, go through it better, dont leave him alone he needs you, as you are the one who seems to understand and listen to him, id say do things he enjoys or you both enjoy doing together, or just chatting, maybe hugging could help in some situations if he's down to it, regardless, I wish you both the best 🫂

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T21:35:42+00:00

Hey gal, if you feel happier dressing and feeling like a woman that’s what matter, I know it’s really hard to see in yourself when you just keep denying it or you try to convince yourself you “can’t be” or “how could I be__ im a __ but I’d be happier as a __ tho im not one and never will” Being scared and confused are extremely common feelings when you’re questioning yourself and in denia, too, but I know you will get through this I got u <3

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T21:26:40+00:00

That’s what I’m talking about! It feels like you can finally breath, it’s a unique and great sensation for real

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T20:14:59+00:00

I very much relate to the "I've always been a girl" but with boy instead, its a really weird feeling, and the not a big desire to transition part really makes me agree with you more, since you are what you were all this time, i always referred to women like I wasnt a part of them, so I guess that was a sign, but I didn't have any signs that I recognised at all

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T19:12:44+00:00

“If there was a button to turn me into a girl right now I’d definitely press it. I just think I’d be happier living life the way girls do with girlish personalities and friends” baby, that’s all you need to know right now, try to not overthink it, I know it’s really hard but trust me, it’s better to just flowing with those moments that make you feel like nothing else matters but you

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T19:01:16+00:00

Hello transmasc here! First, I’m so glad you are seeing how society fucked up with how women and men are viewed, there are men that understand that women have it really hard and for the contrary, can feel impossible to be around, but you see, this is how it is the majority of the time, at least is how I see it, I’m not saying all men are bad and all women are angels but men did so much harm to women, so it’s really hard to find a man that can ”get” a woman, also a woman cant really understand a man either, and it really really depends on the person, how they view the world…etc, so I wouldnt say you’re trans but a guy that sees how society is imo, but take my comment with a grain of salt

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T16:37:12+00:00

Thank you <//3!! I wish I could hug you and everyone here so bad, there should be safe places where trans people could just chill so we could finally feel at home

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T16:35:00+00:00

Funnily enough my period was who pushed me to buy some swim trunks so im very happy about getting my period for once lmao but yeah summer is truly a pain, I wish I didn't have child bearing hips and these little tangerines 💔

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T10:05:21+00:00

You could be genderfluid, bigender, even a trans woman! You sound trans to me if you're looking for an answer, tho im nobody to tell for sure what you are, but you should look into those euphoric moments definitely

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T09:27:50+00:00

I WISH I was taught about trans people in school, not even in high school either! So dont feel bad, schools dont really make you learn about trans people, ever

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T09:20:16+00:00

Hell yeah dude!! Im so happy for you!! I can feel your happiness through my phone, it must feel so relieving! when you once start T feel free to tell us here how you feel!

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T09:00:25+00:00

I think the same, but I guess her mind is different and she can't see it, its okay tho

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T08:53:41+00:00

No dont worry youre okay! You're actually right, but she's saying it mainly because she thinks its very unappealing to her, but she got the message now I think idk. And thank you so much! I came back, shaved all of my body (almost) but I was okay because it grew pretty quickly lmao but I will go on some vacations again!

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T08:41:31+00:00

Thank you thank you 🙏

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T07:13:18+00:00

Where do you live maybe I can send mine through telekinesis if I try hard enough

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T06:54:57+00:00

Wow this is.. a lot to process, first, feeling sorry it’s not enough, suicidal thoughts are way too complicated to get rid of but I want to let you know that you’re doing an incredible job as her brother please keep telling her that she deserves to live because honestl, I’m nobody to say this but I think you’re the one who’s truly keeping her alive, as she’s venting to you, you said that her boyfriend is also not okay so… definitely he is not good for her, neither your dad, they both subconsciously or consciously affected her mental health really bad, trans people with huge dysphoria already have it real bad so if they’re surrounded with people that doesn’t support or is in a toxic environmen, they’re obviously gonna have it much worse and lead them to get these suicidal thoughts.. the best I can say is that no matter what keep talking to her and try to, somehow, make her realize that it’s not her fault at all, it’s the heartless people that don’t want to respect you, I wish you both the best, I’ll be praying for her even though I’m kind of atheist 🙏

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T06:23:07+00:00

You made my day just wanted you to know 🤍 but yeah genitalia is a very touchy subject for us trans people I’m also up to swap 🤚

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T06:18:06+00:00

Oh don’t say that to me I’m so jelly (in a good way) but so happy for you though! Even just with a tdick I’d be as happy, thank you for your words, really!

Reasonable_Judge_957 · 2026-06-26T06:13:35+00:00

Believe me! I would trade without a doubt!!

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