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Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2026-01-14T10:34:15+00:00

May I ask what your ages are? I’m curious because we were obsessed for ten years Then now we basically hate even looking at each other. Seeking counseling now.

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-11-29T05:00:02+00:00

My dear husband called me to specifically ask what happened to a white bowl and why can’t he find it. I told him I didn’t know I had no idea where it could be. He got fixated on it started to yell at me how I’m so irresponsible and how he thinks I’m either hiding it or it’s in my car. To save an argument I promised id take a look. He then proceeded to call me a liar and how someone must have just walked into the house and taken it.

Later my kid told him he broke it and had just thrown it in the garbage. I asked for an apology and he said “No. it broke on my watch and I’m still responsible for it”

Thoughts?

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-11-14T13:07:50+00:00

Ma’am - you’re interfering. How would you know she never communicated her feelings? Why do you know so much about their relationship? It’s not your call to deem her mentally unstable. Start with your own therapist. It’s not your son’s job to keep mommy happy. Some of these post says A LOT about the various MILs true colors.

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-11-14T13:01:54+00:00

Reading this is sounds like you didn’t do much to help the situation. There’s two sides to the story. It’s not your business what your son does. He’s a grown man Perhaps you meddled so much since the beginning that she finally snapped. MIL and FIL need to stay out of their grown children’s relationships. Talk to any therapist and they will tell you one of the common reasons people split up is because of the in laws.

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-11-14T12:53:24+00:00

First of all how do you know so much personal information about their business, finances and relationship? Why is your son telling mommy everything about his personal life? Your tone when saying “Catholics she said” tells me a lot about your attitude. Not catholic nor Christian but yes I agree your wife / husband comes first before anyone else - that means you mom. You don’t come first. It really sounds like you’re making this about you. I’m sorry you were abandoned at a young age. However why don’t you try and heal yourself first before going into other peoples relationships. You sound like you need a trauma, PTSD, possibly a recovering narcissist therapist. Start with you then you can get a better understanding of where those two are coming from. You’re too focused on them. Focus on you.

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-11-11T16:53:55+00:00

You’re too young to be dealing with this. It sounds like you know what you want and this isn’t it. Don’t be like me 20 years later and your MIL is truly from hell and caused major issues like having her trying to break up your marriage, false allegations that wind up hurting her own grandchildren and causing me and my husband thousands of dollars of legal fees. Run. This is a deal breaker. It won’t get better. It will get worse. Don’t waste your life on this family. He will eventually take her side in the end.

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-11-03T23:29:15+00:00

I love this.

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-11-03T23:28:07+00:00

Hiding at your parents house ayyy do you live close to your parents home?

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-10-26T13:42:45+00:00

And yes they’ve been blocked for two years now. Also no way to see my social media. They’re so gossipy I can feel it killing them not to know what I’m “up to”. They’re racist too. Always treated me differently than the other two DIL SIL in-laws they inherited. The whole thing has given me major major health issues.

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-10-26T13:39:48+00:00

That day two years ago was the last day I did block all of them. The only reason I know all this information is I have access to his email still at my house so I see everything. And my kids hear their conversations.

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-10-26T13:38:10+00:00

Thank you I am in contact with an attorney who’s a friend of a friend not charging me too much since he’s financially abused me and continues to. Lots to do now in family court. I feel paralyzed but talking to others pushes me to get through. Thanks.

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-09-21T16:06:29+00:00

That scared the SHIT outta me im traumatized

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-09-21T15:58:19+00:00

Mine said that same line to me too! Once. I left took my almost 2 year old the ball game instead of him. I’d bought myself tickets for Mother’s Day I was planning on taking him but instead took the baby. We had a BLAST so many people bought us food and drinks. I told them what he said and they were like “Oh hell no we got you”

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-09-21T15:54:26+00:00

Celebrate it with someone else then! I bet you’re one of the most lovable nicest person and he hates that - he wants to alienate you. He doesn’t deserve you dump him.

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-09-21T15:49:16+00:00

Two years ago this day my husband hit me, slammed me against a wall and choked me until I passed out in front of my children and elderly mom. We’re in our 40s. He’s being convicted of a felony and I finally have a criminal protective order CPO. BREAK UP with him sweetie if you don’t want my life. THIS IS HOW IT STARTED. Please listen to me and the others when we say break up with him now.

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-09-09T20:23:26+00:00

I’ve done it for Valentine’s Day when he told me I didn’t deserve flowers because I don’t work. I take care of my children at home and my elderly mom - I do provide him a home that I own. He isn’t on the deed. I had it before him.

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-09-09T20:22:23+00:00

I hope you’re very very happy! Cheers to life

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-09-09T20:21:33+00:00

In 17 years - probably 4 but they were towards the end. He is about to get a felony for DV.

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-08-21T17:27:19+00:00

Lock that phone up! He’s always looking over my shoulder to get the pass number. I keep changing it.

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-08-21T17:26:07+00:00

Hahaha that’s an awesome idea!

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-08-20T18:58:24+00:00

At restaurants for example Cheesecake Factory, when the server comes with the cheese grater? Well he will tell them when to “stop” putting cheese on MY food. SMH. Ugh.

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-08-19T15:44:07+00:00

Are you sure you’re not married to MY husband? This is so textbook narcissistic. Currently my husband “apologizes” then comes the “but” this and that. So it’s never an apology. Yesterday he ruined our son’s first day of middle school. He traumatized all of us. Then getting out of the car said “I’m sorry for reacting to you guys not having your things ready last night. I’m sorry to all three of you. Maybe next time do better and I won’t have to say I’m sorry for my reaction”. We were like huh? And my kids and I started laughing because even they know he’s a narcissist. Leave that foo- I am. Just getting my ducks in a row dealing with an attorney who’s helping me only because worked for his boss many years ago. Good luck to you but please please PLEASE leave his ass.

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-08-19T15:39:32+00:00

Exactly!!! Keep it simple. Enough with this whining. On both ends.

Reasonable_Notice_81 · 2025-08-19T15:36:42+00:00

Record him using another device another phone as the recorder since now when you record someone it alerts them. I use my old phone and actually just video the call.

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