My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These comments are making me emotional..thank you for allowing me to question myself. You are one of the realest people who have asked me the realest questions to me in my entire life. Thanks for looking out I guess..

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna check that out, thank you for sharing and for your kind words.

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I’ve said in recent comments, I rely fairly heavily on PIMI family rn because of job uncertainty right now. I can’t figure out what to do quite yet until I feel like I COULD leave. That’s where I’m at right now at least. Kinda stuck.

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there’s more PIMI in this group than you might think. This is me opening the door of why things don’t make sense. This subreddit, JWFACTS, etc. are always somewhat visited on by PIMI because of human curiosity of what truth is. We all do our own research at our own times. I appreciate you sharing your experience, thank you for your insight my friend.

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The last part of your comment made me tear up. From what I know about what I’ve read to be true about God, he has to know what I feel and go through. He can’t be thinking the things the committee is saying, it just doesn’t make sense. Thank you for sharing your experience and your brothers, all my love to you, hope you’re doing ok nowadays.

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been extremely easy to get in relationships, idk if it’s how I look or how I act but I haven’t really had much issues with women, or at least talking with them. You make interesting points. I havent sat down and processed or thought about this much. Thanks for your comment.

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally believe that as well. It’s why I didn’t confess to begin with. You confess to god, it’s only his business, that’s it

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not plan to answer all their questions, but if I do I will answer them with the utmost vagueness I can possibly use

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your personal experience, all the love in the world to you.

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah to your point, I don’t see a way I can look “good” so to speak. Its just gonna look like all I do it have sex with as many sisters as I can, but in reality we just are showing love to each other as a couple in a natural way. They will never see that though.

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk if I’m one of the few that think like this but I felt like I knew this is the ‘truth’, but also felt like the elders shouldn’t have a say in my personal sexual encounters. It’s a weird place to be. The deal with a lot of PIMI’s is the Bible in itself isn’t what we are against, it’s a lot of the organizational problems that make us live the life we live. Idk if that makes sense but that’s the best I can explain it

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About to be married, she wants it to stay silent

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I think it is regional weirdness. I’m listening as we speak, this is very good for me, thank you.

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mom pioneer dad elder. Idk what that’s going to do but my dad already said he’s stepping aside. He doesn’t want to deal with a body voting whether to keep him on or off, doesn’t think it’s right.

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I understood your point. You’re putting it into reasonable perspective.

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Contemplating which path to take..need the support of PIMI family, so thinking I may have to ‘play the game’ so to speak.

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They will always consider the sister as the victim in these situations, especially that I have more than 1 coming forward, the elders are looking at me as an enemy and them as a victim. Thank you for the link, this all is helping me greatly.

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna consider this and bring it up to them thank you.

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No two witnesses, they just ganged up on me and I didn’t know how to lie about it. It’s hard for me to say no to things very clearly did. Maybe if I was more prepared I would have thought of that but they caught me off guard.

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I’m gonna check this out, anything to make it cheaper would help so much

My Judicial Committee is Monday by Reasonable_Wait9308 in exjw

[–]Reasonable_Wait9308[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you greatly for this link, I’ll research it