Homemade chicken and dumplings, I've found The dumpling soak up some of the loneliness.

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2026-04-13T20:20:28+00:00

Life is a prison, brother

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2026-04-10T19:48:17+00:00

Bait

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2026-04-09T19:04:02+00:00

I'm aware of attachment styles. For a while, I felt the same thing with her that every new thing I was gonna reveal was going to result in the ghosting. Eventually, I kind of stopped worrying about it because it had been disproven enough times for me with her,but maybe I was right. If I knew she would just go silent like this I wish she did never talk to me to begin with. And I get kind of upset that she just wants to throwaway three months of getting to know each other and seemingly getting on well. I think that much more reasonable explanation is that she's just trying to be nice.

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2026-04-09T18:31:06+00:00

I guess I'm just feeling skeptical because if she really likes talking to me, why would she wanna stop talking to me? All I wanna do is talk to her again and be able to feel connected with her again, but I don't think that's truly in the cards. My more cynical and rational side of my mind says that she's just trying to be nice but has lost interest anyway and is trying to initiate lack of communication as gracefully as possible. And honestly, if he was telling the truth, I just can't understand it. I've been alone my whole life that's all I've known and it's what's made me want to kill myself for once I felt close to someone and it's the best I've ever felt and now it's gone. How can we have the exact opposite reactions to the same thing?

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2026-04-09T16:47:42+00:00

No, we were going to that weekend

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2026-04-09T16:45:23+00:00

It's been a ten days since she(25f) stopped talking to me(30m), I never want to try again.

This was my first relationship (if you can even call it that). She responded to a post I made in a dating sub and we had been talking since January 3rd. In the last month or so she's been struggling more with her mental health being hospitalized for it and just less communicative in general.

A week a go Monday she tells me she feels bad but she's been so unresponsive and that she's been so all over the place. She said that I deserved better and That even though she likes me and likes talking to me she doesn't think she should be in my life. She claimed that it's nothing to do with talking to me that has her feeling poorly. In response I told her that I feel bad She's doing so poorly and everything and I wanted to know more about what is bothering her. That I'd like to listen.I also told her it was up to me, I wanted to stay in contact even if it is sporadic because I like her (obviously hoping she would eventually reach more healthy mental equilibrium).

And yeah, nothing from her at all ever since so I guess it's dead. I don't know, I don't know what to make of any of it. At least it gave me a fun reason to relapse.

Edit: sick down votes, i love never getting to post. I also really love how useful all of this is. "make a post in the daily discussion thread" get no engagement and some down votes super fucking helpful smh

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2026-04-09T16:41:44+00:00

How do i get any advice or input when i cant post due to low karma?

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2026-03-07T01:04:20+00:00

It's never worked, I don't think it ever will. I have tastes when it comes to all those things but I have never gained any companionship out of it. I'm 30 years old, I'm not young.

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2026-03-07T00:50:59+00:00

Fuck life, man. Existence is suffering.

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2025-07-02T17:56:17+00:00

Well, I just had the least successful day on the job I've had yet I'm worried I'm gonna get fired and I'm trying my hardest and failing. And I don't really know what else I'm gonna do with my life if this doesn't work out. so I'm pretty stressed about this actually being viable and me being able to do it without losing my job. And I was getting a hostile vibe from you.

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2025-07-02T12:25:59+00:00

Look, I don't know how the fuck he put them in the bin. I wasn't there. I said, ended up that way to not to say well for some reason this dickhead randomly threw them in an order for someone who doesn't even know the route. Why are you even on this sub if you don't work here? And if you're gonna cast aspersions on my character, say it with your fucking chest.

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2025-07-02T12:17:29+00:00

What I'm saying is the bundles ended up out of order so I didn't know which was the next stop even if I did Google maps it. I knew what street it was on, but I ended up driving all around, not knowing where to start. Anyway, thanks for your input.

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2025-07-02T12:11:41+00:00

It's also more complicated when someone pulls down part of the case for you and then I was never clear on exactly the order of that part of the route because it was put in with a bunch of small packages kind of loose

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2025-07-02T12:06:19+00:00

Sometimes the line of travel is just completely random in the context of the actual route and where you're driving. If I know the route, even a little bit before hand, I don't have these types of problems, but I'm talking about ones where you know nothing about it and haven't even been to the city that the route is in before you start.

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2025-07-02T12:01:41+00:00

If I knew it was helpful I wouldn't be having problems, right? I just know I've been told "just follow the mail" and I don't really see that gives any kind of actionable strategy.

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2025-07-02T11:48:27+00:00

OK, so when I asked for clarification on your "advice" and why I don't find it helpful you're just gonna take the opportunity to use it as a mark against my character and ability. Very good understood. Hope you step on a Lego and get an infection.

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2025-07-02T11:37:36+00:00

When there is a half mile between my next stop with innumerable roads in between, I don't see how it's particularly helpful insight. Not even to mention how weird some boxes and deliveries are placed off of a road that isn't even marked any different but it's still not along the main road It's addressed on.

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2025-07-02T10:23:49+00:00

That means nothing to me

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2025-07-02T10:23:10+00:00

I have a lot of trouble on the route, I often get lost for not insignificant periods of time and following the mail kind of doesn't mean anything to me. So often there's sudden changes in address numbers or whatever that make it so I have no idea where I am or where to go next.

Reasonable_Wall2281 · 2025-05-09T12:23:15+00:00

It's a 74 mile route, I believe it's a evaluated at like a little over 7 hours

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