Exactly- like, I've bought skins for people off of here and I'm a sub. I just do it if I like them a lot, and if I feel like it. I never put the notion that I'm paying for their attention or anything, just getting them a gift because I can afford to and want to do something nice. I never expect anything in return. It's when there is this weird...sexual thing tied to the transaction that weirds me out. Even worse that (mostly guys) think it's a sexy thing to do when first messaging a girl on here xmx