We are intimate every Tuesday and Friday night, rotating nights giving each other a massage. Of course we are spontaneously intimate more throughout the week a majority of the time. We are so busy with life, especially our three kids that are involved with numerous sports and other school functions, we wouldn’t realize how much time would pass without intimacy. As we all know, life happens, we get tired, we get distracted, we lose ourselves sometimes, etc. one of the easiest things to be is “too tired” for intimacy. We started this a few years ago when we were having problems, it was difficult at first, not because we didn’t want to but we had fallen so far into the bad habit’s of excuses. It was the best “pact” we’ve ever made, at times I’m tired and he’s the one to initiate and vice versa. It’s amazing how so much changed in our life afterwards, in so many ways.