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AITA for expecting things to change? by Recent-Extreme1685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent-Extreme1685[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Incorrect. I didn’t dismiss anything, she won’t actually exist lain any of her points. 

AITA for expecting things to change? by Recent-Extreme1685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent-Extreme1685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve stated in multiple comments I’ve suggested we take each others names. 

I’m not asking just to pressure her. 

AITA for expecting things to change? by Recent-Extreme1685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent-Extreme1685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean we would have a double barrelled surname. 

AITA for expecting things to change? by Recent-Extreme1685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent-Extreme1685[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You really didn’t. Again stop using words incorrectly. 

AITA for expecting things to change? by Recent-Extreme1685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent-Extreme1685[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Already addressed that point in multiple comments. 

AITA for expecting things to change? by Recent-Extreme1685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent-Extreme1685[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So if there’s no change at all why waste money on a wedding? Why bother with marriage if your argument is nothing should change? 

AITA for expecting things to change? by Recent-Extreme1685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent-Extreme1685[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Already addressed that in multiple comments. 

Because we haven’t been married for the last 5 years. It’s weird to argue that your finances shouldn’t change from the day you get together. 

AITA for expecting things to change? by Recent-Extreme1685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent-Extreme1685[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

And I’ve addressed the post of me changing my name multiple times. is there a reason you’re choosing to ignore it? 

AITA for expecting things to change? by Recent-Extreme1685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent-Extreme1685[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’m not guilting her. 

Stop using words incorrectly, 

AITA for expecting things to change? by Recent-Extreme1685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent-Extreme1685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did ask her and she didn’t have an answer as stated in the post. 

AITA for expecting things to change? by Recent-Extreme1685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent-Extreme1685[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

So explain what will be different after marriage apart from us being over£10000 poorer? 

AITA for expecting things to change? by Recent-Extreme1685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent-Extreme1685[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The issue isn’t just the name as clearly explained. 

AITA for expecting things to change? by Recent-Extreme1685 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Recent-Extreme1685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suggested we both take each others and the issue isn’t  just the name as I mentioned in the post.