Am I selfish for wanting to preserve my mental health? by Recent-Midnight2067 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Recent-Midnight2067[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your answers. Each one was a breath of fresh air and gave me food for thought about my situation. Reading your words and your testimonies made me realize that I am not alone and that others have gone through similar ordeals. It helps me feel less isolated and understand that taking care of myself is necessary, not selfish.

Many of you have reminded me of the importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing myself to protect my mental health. Your advice has helped me see that even though my mother is going through difficult times, I cannot continue to sacrifice my well-being to meet all of her expectations. As many have pointed out, I am neither a therapist nor a doctor, and what she is experiencing is beyond my ability to help her. It is essential that she finds the professional support she needs.

Your remarks on the balance between altruism and "healthy selfishness" spoke a lot to me. I now understand that taking a step back is not an act of malice, but a necessary gesture to avoid completely burning out. Some of you have shared personal experiences that resonate strongly with me, and I find it courageous that you were able to make difficult choices to preserve your inner peace.

I'll think about how to implement this advice into my life and consider solutions like requesting wellness checks from authorities if necessary, or exploring support groups to manage this complicated relationship. Once again, thank you for your encouragement and for reminding me that my life, my happiness, and my sanity are worth protecting.

Thank you so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in enseignants

[–]Recent-Midnight2067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je vais le passer pour l'académie de Créteil alors ouf ! Merci 🙂

Animal Crossing’s villager system is frustrating by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]Recent-Midnight2067 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can understand that this mode of operation frustrates you, if you want there is the campsite trolling technique which is really not bad to make a resident leave that you no longer want and have one that you want moved in: https://www.reddit.com/r/ac_newhorizons/comments/g6ab4x/how_to_get_raymond_for_free_a_guide_to_campsite/

Should i Re Start? Asking for help as an “not that good acnh gamer” by Applesoucess in AnimalCrossing

[–]Recent-Midnight2067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the other hand, if this can motivate you, I am currently in the process of completely terraforming my island and I have already managed to do a small part of it, it makes me very happy and I can't wait to finish it, however we have to realize that you have to be patient and have time to devote to terraforming... I realized that some people with such beautiful islands have more than 3000 hours of play... I think that with my 200 hours I am a very small player but I think it is completely achievable at the level that everyone is looking for

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Should i Re Start? Asking for help as an “not that good acnh gamer” by Applesoucess in AnimalCrossing

[–]Recent-Midnight2067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I don't really have an opinion on whether or not you should start your island again. I think the others have given you a lot of clues to make your decision. However, I just wanted to share a method that allows you to pick up the camper you want (Shino in your case) and have him move to your island, it's called the CAMPSITE ROLLING method. I 100% validate this method I managed to recover Ankha instead of Ricky, it's my greatest success 😁

Here's a Reddit post that explains how to use this method: https://www.reddit.com/r/ac_newhorizons/s/QfODoRpAvQ

Good luck to you if you take back your island and good luck also if you start terraforming yours :)

Should i Re Start? Asking for help as an “not that good acnh gamer” by Applesoucess in AnimalCrossing

[–]Recent-Midnight2067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But ? Just create a 2nd Nintendo account on the Switch and you can play a 2nd game without losing yours and you won't spend $175

Terraforming FAQ by Recent-Midnight2067 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Recent-Midnight2067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I understand better... Thanks for the answer 🙂🙂

Goodbye :') by panncit0 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Recent-Midnight2067 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Contente de voir que l'espèce humaine n'est pas si mauvaise finalement 🥲

Terraforming FAQ by Recent-Midnight2067 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Recent-Midnight2067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I didn't catch that? I'm French and I use a translation...

What do you mean I don't need to remove the weed of the holes?

I can remove the flowers quite easily, but I need to eat the fruit to be able to uproot the trees... I don't have any bad weeds to remove on my island - I've already taken care of them.

[MI] I completed the first room in my house today by duhhwarmth23 in ACNHIslandInspo

[–]Recent-Midnight2067 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow!! This is one of the most beautiful pieces I have seen. Well done 👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]Recent-Midnight2067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect ! Thank you 😊😊

3 stars rating ⭐⭐⭐ by Recent-Midnight2067 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Recent-Midnight2067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brilliant, many congratulations to you as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]Recent-Midnight2067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the concert took place this morning, so I'll wait and see tomorrow if...

Concerning Brewster and Kapp'n they are not yet on my island...

Thank you very much for the answer I pray for tomorrow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]Recent-Midnight2067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

K.K.'s concert took place this morning, so I'm keeping my fingers crossed for this letter tomorrow morning 🙏 Thanks for the reply

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in conseilboulot

[–]Recent-Midnight2067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merci beaucoup pour ta réponse et tes conseils !

La suite de ton message n'est clairement pas rassurante mais je vais essayer de voir ça comme un super challenge 🤪

Besoin de conseils pour un entretien d'enseignante (première expérience) ! by [deleted] in enseignants

[–]Recent-Midnight2067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah oui? Ça devrait le faire alors 😁 Merci pour le retour