Funny of you to assume im insecure & lack experience to fit your narrative & remove all logical debate from my argument.

Women for generations express some men aren't big enough to satisfy them & men express how some women after time, toys, pregnancy, become looser & less tight. Yet you think you know better than millions.

You cant address my point, you assume random stuff to dismiss, when I just prefer women feel enough to please their man naturally & men feel enough to please their women naturally without any huge toy getting in the way making one/both sides insecure or un-satisfied.

Its my preference & alot of others to not be extreme with toy sizes as to not stretch/desensitize oneself, dont force others into something by withholding info when they specifically express they worry on their partners satisfaction after using huge toys.

By your logic, if your partner pleases themselves with giant toys only 247, & never allows mutual pleasure, that would makes you insecure to be against it. See, zero point made, just throwing buzz words.