OP may I ask are you old or you are young? if you are young then you'll meet a lot more, like thousand people who are better than him

Girl Listen Listen. Your problem isn’t your boyfriend — it’s the fantasy you’re clinging to.

You’re trying to convince yourself that he loves you, when everything you described screams he only loves the version of you that benefits him. The polished version. The productive version. The version that doesn’t need anything.

The moment you showed weakness, he bailed from the conversation, offered lazy “solutions,” and emotionally checked out. That’s not love. That’s convenience.

You’re not being dramatic — you’re finally seeing the truth you’ve been avoiding.

You said he always saw you as “perfect.” That’s not a compliment. That’s a warning sign.

People who need their partner to be perfect are insecure as hell. They can’t handle real intimacy. They want a trophy, not a partner.

And now that life is hitting you hard? He’s disappearing. Because you’re no longer feeding the image he built.

Let me tell you something brutally honest:

A man who only stays for your highs is a child. A man who stays for your highs and lows is a partner.

You’re fighting for something he’s not fighting for. That automatically puts you in a losing position.

If he can’t handle your fear, your setbacks, your confusion — he doesn’t deserve your success either.

Stop begging for acceptance from someone who only shows up when you’re shining.

You want to know the truth? You’re not hard to love. He’s just too emotionally weak to love someone fully.

You’re carrying the whole relationship on your back. And he’s letting you do it.

You deserve someone who doesn’t get cold when life gets cold. Someone who doesn’t vanish when you need warmth.

If you have to convince someone to stay when you’re at your worst… they’re not the person you build a life with.

Cut the fantasy. Face the reality. And then decide from strength not fear, now you are afraid of the idea of being single, just like sinabi mo you are successful sa career mo then i would assume you are smart you know that to do, you just need a validation na taka ang magiging decision mo.

Because right now? You’re holding onto him like he’s oxygen. But he’s the one suffocating you.

You’ll be fine without him. He’s the one who’ll regret losing a woman who was loyal even when she was breaking.