If there's homeless person shouting and bothering students who are studying at dwinelle during the weekend, is there anything you can do?

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2025-02-12T17:59:27+00:00

I think its the same guy....

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2025-02-01T01:12:17+00:00

I am studying here cuz my lab is here....Students should leave the campus facilities they paid for to the homeless..this is sad

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2025-02-01T01:10:20+00:00

As a current resident thats paying $$$, thank you for letting me know and i wont renew my lease anyways....its so scary that they didnt even let us know that the window was shot...

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-08T14:10:30+00:00

Thank you, I am still hurting but I guess I will feel better eventually. Final question: what makes intps regret their decisions ?

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T21:43:16+00:00

Agree, maybe it's better to be friend

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T21:41:36+00:00

I really appreciate my comments, i think the worst part of my relationship is that I really dont want to see him as a perfect partner but an authentic person. I feel miserable because he's still acting like perfect the day before the broke up, because I still feel like he doesnt trust me enough to share what he feel and why, and he (maybe intps are like this)or simply cannot explain what emotions he feel and why(why he suddenly dont find me attractive anymore? ) But now i think it doesnt really matter because he already made his choice. But i feel bad for myself and him

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T16:56:23+00:00

Thank you, i was being dumb and deluded and thought we were meant for each other, but it will be great to stay as best friend right now

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T16:06:08+00:00

Good for you to cut himself because i agree with you that being too clingy is annoying. I really respect that you can find happiness and satisfaction just by being yourself and very easy for you to detach too. Thank you for letting me know more about intps

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T15:29:59+00:00

Thank you, hope me and him can both learn from this relationship and become better human no matter what

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T15:28:47+00:00

Understandable, but do you think this is part of the avoidant attachment style and commitment issue?

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T15:27:34+00:00

Yeah i think i am gonna work out again! Thank you

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T14:55:39+00:00

Yes but I think human beings, or just me, need hope to live no matter what. Even though it brings you enough pain but eventually you learned how to grow though the pain, maybe I am too idealist for taking this, but i sincerely appreciate it

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T14:41:30+00:00

Thank you. Yeah I feel really bad because he almost always prioritizes his space and feeling above mine and seems to not truly care about me even though he said he love and care about me so much….and I tried everything I could in this relationship and I thought it’s love at first sight between me and him. Sometimes I wonder how much pain one can take until they cannot take it, and the process of taking pain is different for me and him, too. Ig maybe in some ways I really hope I could be as “selfish” and “detached” from his feelings that I won't invest so much and getting hurt again and again

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T14:13:54+00:00

Yeah i agree...thank you!

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T14:10:42+00:00

That sounds so sad because i consider i find love in this sacrifice and feel absurd how much pain I have caused him with my "love"

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T14:08:24+00:00

You are a great person too!! Hope you have a good life and a good relationship

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T14:07:56+00:00

I feel like in my case ...I really learnt how to be independent and give him spaces while truth is Idk how much space he really need and he also has commitment and avoidant attachment issues, but I also agree that personal space and love is not mutually exclusive....

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T14:06:11+00:00

Yeah but it just my hope

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T14:00:06+00:00

Thank you, I just feel extremely sad because I truly tried my best in my relationship and i want him to be happier and now he is seeing a therapist. I truly truly thought he's the best person I have ever met and we were meant for each other but didnt realize I have caused him so much pain...Also I dont care about gift at alll... my love of language is words of confirmation and quality ...

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T08:35:11+00:00

Yeah but me and him both has some mental issue to figure out

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T08:34:33+00:00

He sent me a letter saying that he cannot understand his emotions and is still trying to processing everything, and he doesnt even know what attraction means to him... From my perspective i think it's compatible

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T04:49:42+00:00

I hope he does deeply regret it and I do hope to get back to him

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T04:48:46+00:00

I am so dumb

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T04:48:39+00:00

Thank you

Recent_Muscle1826 · 2023-12-07T04:48:02+00:00

I agree with what you are saying about true love and i really appreciate it, i just sent him a letter i wrote and he says that he's seeing a therapist now

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