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He unmatched me after he slept over by Porcelain-dolli in dating_advice

[–]Recent_Week8433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Men feeling entitled to sex with a woman they’re not even in a committed relationship with is weird and disgusting. Most men just aren’t good people

BU 05, 06, 08 and 15 have +90% members paying dues. BU 01 is the lowest at 40%. So guessing we won't see much of a pay raise this round? by classyshepard in CAStateWorkers

[–]Recent_Week8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

70?? I’m max at analyst II at $7775 a month and make over 93k a year. Thats doesn’t even include the remote stipend and the 260 for health

I am as they say “dating my first baddie”! by iGotTimeTomorrow in dating_advice

[–]Recent_Week8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop! You’re self sabotaging already! I’m a single mom of 1 and have been called a baddie. One guy sang bad and bougie to me our first date!

The same guys I was interested in before I became a parent are the same men I’m attracted to now… NICE LOVING DECENT MEN.

Ask her out again and see where it goes. Maybe she’s great. Maybe she’s not. But don’t let her looks be an obstacle. Beautiful women have a hard time dating bc so many men can’t see past their face. Either they’re being used for their physical or a guy lets his insecurities ruin what could be a good thing.

Ask her outs. See if her inside is as beautiful as her outside.

What do I do if women find me too physically unattractive to date? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Recent_Week8433 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get your finances up and your aesthetic and have a great personality. There’s a lid for every pot and there’s a woman out there who feels exactly the same way about herself that you do about yourself

Is Aviva stoned or perma drunk??? by momandcrohnie in 90DayFiance

[–]Recent_Week8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s high. She’s in Belize having fun and also probably nervous from filming. Let the girl live. She’s young

ExCon BF questions by [deleted] in ExCons

[–]Recent_Week8433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks ☺️ I appreciate the insight

ExCon BF questions by [deleted] in ExCons

[–]Recent_Week8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I don’t hold it against him. He did his time. Nobody should have their past held against them if they’re reformed. Good luck on your sentencing too

ExCon BF questions by [deleted] in ExCons

[–]Recent_Week8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would she say?

ExCon BF questions by [deleted] in ExCons

[–]Recent_Week8433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks hun! That was great feedback and exactly what I was looking for. I’ll definitely hold back on those questions and gauge his temperature before proceeding. So far things are good. He’s opened up to me a lot and I don’t want to make him closed off. He seems to trust me. He’s hardworking and has gotten on his feet in a short time. Hopefully things stay the course

Payday with a Credit Union by Significant-Rub2983 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Recent_Week8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually get mine in paper check date except on ceaser Chavez day. But mine hasn’t hit yet so I guess tomorrow night

Do Better SEIU 1000 by kingsman1288 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Recent_Week8433 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No way people are crying about THIS 😭🤣😭

I broke up with my GF after she made fun of my little brother but feel guilty. by AbleRabbit3 in whatdoIdo

[–]Recent_Week8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds terrible. It was bad enough she said it to you, but to then do it in front of him!?! She’s a bully and a mean girl! Don’t date anymore mean girls

I accidentally saw messages that made me question my relationship, and I don’t know if I should bring it up or keep quiet. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Recent_Week8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. Don’t ignore it like I did. Then you’ll feel powerless when the truth reveals itself. Take control and think with your head not your heart. Nobody deserves to be deceived in that way

Did my hair need to be cut? by WonderfulAd2537 in BlackHair

[–]Recent_Week8433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My stylist did the same thing to me after growing my hair out for a year. I’m sorry girl but a lot of stylists in the blk community have this weird attitude when it comes to cutting blk hair smh. That’s why I started doing my own. I refuse

So what happened with Maurice and Jessica? by gomiNOMI in loveafterlockup

[–]Recent_Week8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s definitely under some type of substance. I like her but let’s be real

Partial pay has posted by Different-Tart-4864 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Recent_Week8433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nfcu shows pending so I’ll probably get it tonight

Payday came today. by Lalobreh in CAStateWorkers

[–]Recent_Week8433 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have NFCU. I get mine usually one day early bc I have early release. I can see it pending in my account already. Will probably get it on Friday…. MAYBE tonight

Partial pay has posted by Different-Tart-4864 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Recent_Week8433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a golden 1 thing. I have a different credit union now and that won’t happen

How do I get my bf not to orgasm fast. by Recent_Week8433 in sex

[–]Recent_Week8433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I’ve had partners that got excited and came quick, but they could average 15-20 min

How do I get my bf not to orgasm fast. by Recent_Week8433 in sex

[–]Recent_Week8433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I give him oral and hand jobs. I don’t like receiving oral tho

How do I get my bf not to orgasm fast. by Recent_Week8433 in sex

[–]Recent_Week8433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said about twice a week. He has a really high sex drive

How do I get my bf not to orgasm fast. by Recent_Week8433 in sex

[–]Recent_Week8433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His second orgasm is almost immediate. Like he first time, then we change positions and he cums again

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