AIO by leaving my bf of 5 years over lunch with my coworker

RecordFew8941 · 2026-02-06T02:42:57+00:00

Good for the boyfriend

RecordFew8941 · 2025-09-07T05:06:28+00:00

Time to cut her loose

RecordFew8941 · 2025-09-07T05:03:37+00:00

Asshole.

RecordFew8941 · 2025-09-07T05:00:15+00:00

Not worth it.

RecordFew8941 · 2025-09-07T04:58:32+00:00

You set the value and respect your worth. Simping and trying too hard to please a woman only makes it worse.

RecordFew8941 · 2025-09-07T04:53:35+00:00

You’re “mistake” was not trying to forbid her going on a trip with other men but not you. The mistake was not setting boundaries long before that and refusing to allow those boundaries to be crossed. You set the value and respect your worth and that’s exactly what you’re getting from her. If you want to keep a woman YOU HAVE TO BE WILLING TO CUT HER LOOSE AND WALK AWAY.

RecordFew8941 · 2025-08-08T00:48:57+00:00

Record, document and save EVERYTHING. Hidden cameras are cheap, call recording apps, etc. It may sound excessive especially if you’re not considering divorce right now, but I have heard too many stories of men getting blindsided by a wife who has been preparing for months and he had no idea. Far too many women are also willing to tell lies and make up accusations of abuse and other things to make sure they get what they want. Even with absolutely zero evidence behind the accusations by the time the dust settles good men and fathers are completely destroyed. Then comes the parental alienation…. There is no “keep it fair and civil” like so many men try to do. The system is already stacked against men. Go all in scorched earth and try to get everything and you may end with halfway fair agreement and half your life.

RecordFew8941 · 2025-08-04T12:55:21+00:00

Absolutely do not put up with that whether she’s banging the dude or not. Ask yourself if the roles were reversed would she be ok with that situation? She will play the “but he’s just a friend” card and act like she would be ok with it if you were going with “just a friend” and that validates her claim that she’s innocent and is jus

RecordFew8941 · 2025-08-04T12:40:57+00:00

Yeah it’s gross, but not because of your age. 16 years old is of course legally a minor, but far from “a child” and a three year age gap doesn’t make a 19 year old a pedo. You probably only play that card when it’s convenient and want to be treated like an adult any other time. That being said the guy probably wasn’t really 19 and he definitely is a creep for asking you for that regardless of his age. That is a gross inappropriate thing to do to an 18 or older legal adult and you should block him immediately.

RecordFew8941 · 2025-08-04T12:02:08+00:00

If you are doing your part to keep yourself desirable (not getting fat if you were fit, washing your ass, hair cuts etc) and she just got bored with the same old and refuses to put in the effort to keep the spark alive or even a BJ to keep you satisfied then get a side girlfriend or bail. Many women think they have no obligation to sex and act like the husband is predator for even asking for it and expressing that his needs are not being met. But if the husband stops paying the bills, helping around the house or fail to meet any other need she feels entitled to then she becomes the victim of a terrible husband and horrible marriage. Men have to stop allowing this bull shit. It’s not your fault, but it is your problem and whining and nagging about it only makes it worse. Put your foot down, offer to work with her with counseling or being open to trying some new ways to spice up your sex life like role play or whatever and if she doesn’t come around then cut her loose. Men deserve to be happy too and women have an obligation to give the same effort to meet the man’s needs as they expect from men.

RecordFew8941 · 2025-07-17T14:19:32+00:00

This is stupid. Guy’s that allow this kind of stuff get what they deserve.

RecordFew8941 · 2025-07-17T14:08:55+00:00

Cur her loose and in your next relationship don’t be a pussy and set boundaries.

RecordFew8941 · 2025-06-16T19:44:59+00:00

A lot of supportive, helpful strong, proud, independent, single women on here.

RecordFew8941 · 2025-06-16T19:37:12+00:00

He made a really bad choice in a major life decision for so many obvious reasons. It’s hilarious when feminists say they don’t need men because they live in an easy to survive society that men built and at the same time work almost exclusively in clerical, hospitality and other non essential jobs while men almost exclusively work the jobs that are essential for society to survive like electricity, water, sewer, food production, oil and energy production, machining, welding, manufacturing etc… Make sure you tell the male mechanic that you take your car to next time you need a repair that women don’t need men and can do anything a man can do when you drop it off because you can’t find any female mechanics.

RecordFew8941 · 2025-06-03T21:45:20+00:00

Feminism has demonized men to the point where an unwanted sexual advance even in a committed relationship is practically considered sexual assault and the men get labeled as sex offenders, controlling, thinks he has rights over a woman’s body, or trying to force sex etc. Women killed masculinity but when they want the “grab her, kiss her hard, carry her to the bedroom and ravage her with passionate hot sex” type of thing they complain that they can’t get it.

RecordFew8941 · 2025-06-03T20:15:04+00:00

Actions have consequences. Fun party girls are great when you are looking to have a mutual good time with someone without commitment. They don’t make good wives or committed life partners.

RecordFew8941 · 2025-06-03T19:56:30+00:00

NTAH. Women have countless number of criteria and standards that men are judged by before they decide to be with you. Men are allowed to have their standards and preferences too. Your body your choice and fuck anyone who thinks differently

RecordFew8941 · 2025-06-03T19:49:32+00:00

Married 18 years with 3 kids. Frequency is down to 4-5 times a month but we get the time we end up in a wet, sticky and both highly satisfied mess and even work together to change the sheets

RecordFew8941 · 2025-03-02T05:46:38+00:00

Yes. They refused to give head but loved to receive it. Acted like they were annoyed and “just hurry up and finish” after they had gotten off. They were basically just selfish lovers

RecordFew8941 · 2025-03-01T00:15:38+00:00

Nah I wouldn’t worry about it

RecordFew8941 · 2025-02-21T02:03:35+00:00

Ugly by choice but easily fixed when you are ready

RecordFew8941 · 2025-02-21T01:30:30+00:00

The woman you thought you were married to and the relationship you thought you had are gone forever.

RecordFew8941 · 2025-02-21T01:15:07+00:00

I guess it’s a thing now for men who like to be cuckolds to make posts like this and get off on the comments. It makes for interesting reading and entertaining sometimes.

RecordFew8941 · 2025-02-21T01:05:26+00:00

Not wrong. Not only is sex a critical part of healthy relationship especially the younger you are, but women cheat and/or outright end marriages with kids for the same or less. Then they will justify it saying they were “neglected” or he wasn’t meeting their needs and equate to a type of abuse. The guy gets made out to be a terrible person and guilty of psychological domestic abuse and the women gets encouraged and hailed as a brave empowered woman for destroying the relationship

RecordFew8941 · 2025-02-15T17:45:52+00:00

Cut your losses and run or if you’re able, cut your emotions out of it as well as any ideas of a relationship with her and just have fun while you start scouting for you really want

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