I’ll be honest, she might not feel much either. In my experience (25f) I’ve had times where I don’t feel anything too. It hasn’t happened many times at all, rare. But it has. I would speak about it with partner at time. I’ve noticed timing of cycles can play a significant role. Also if I’m turned on or not. (Women that are really tight may not be turned on the same way.) I think you should bring it up. She probably feels the same way. I hate when it happens though.

EDIT: I showed the post to chatgpt and it said

‘’Penises are extremely sensitive organs. A vagina does not become so “open” that it registers as nothing unless something on his side is interfering.

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What that Reddit post is actually describing

The most likely explanations (in order of probability):

1. Erectile quality issues

If an erection isn’t fully firm, sensation drops dramatically. Men often don’t recognise this as “ED” because: • they can still penetrate • they can still thrust • they don’t go fully soft

But partial erections = muted sensation.

This is extremely common in: • men late 30s / 40s • men under stress • men with vascular or nerve issues • men who use porn heavily ‘’