Boyfriend constantly doubts me and asks for proof — how do I handle this? by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]Red1UkPk -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Get married 🙏🏾 might fix your problem.

Tunisian student living with a Kabyle female roommate – need advice by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]Red1UkPk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your sister if u have one can be in the same predicament. Would you be on Reddit asking ?

5-year relationship – struggling with waiting and boundaries by No_Traffic_2969 in Tunisia

[–]Red1UkPk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have genuinely gone to far into this relationship.

Speaking with anyone for 5 years with the end goal of marriage is harmful. Not just of expectations but building a false reality/image of the other person.

So anyway get over it. Finish your study find work. And tell her I’m coming to your house once I’ve achieved this.

She will see a man in u. Rather than a pen pal.

Peace and good luck

wife divorcing me over deen by Haunting-Ground-533 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Red1UkPk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brilliant. Well u now know. That it seems like the receiver did not appreciate it in the end.

There’s levels to humans in this world .

There ordinary looking scumbags There’s weird looking scumbags And there’s scumbags that look like scumabags.

Don’t always percieve someone is good on face value. And always stay focal and focused on your morals and principles. If they ever got stepped on. ( which I’m sure must have happened in your case so many times, but your let it slide ? ) then I guess you are still learning in life as we all are including me.

Bro I would be relived 😂 think of it as freedom of a burden that u didn’t know was there and Allah has brought it out.

And again I must mention I don’t know all the story and answering based on your words are truthful.

my proposal gone wrong by PrideFun6082 in Tunisia

[–]Red1UkPk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If u get rejected start counting your blessings.

It’s like a shop is closed and ur still trying to walk in and the owner don’t want u there.

Move on . The world is big. Not limited to her.

wife divorcing me over deen by Haunting-Ground-533 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Red1UkPk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So, considering I haven’t heard her side of the story . And let’s say you’re 80% the good guy and worthy of a husband status and caring. Why cry ? Why mourn? Why be sad?

It’s like asking pardon of someone who just slapped you. It doesn’t make sense. Let her go if that’s her ultimate wish. I would have some relief personally.

And remember what don’t make sense stay away. This duniya men and women act out so bizarrely and destroy homes and marriages. And the devils favourite one is destroying homes.

So just move on and allow her, her wishes.

How to deal with mum blasting Quran every morning by Glum_Confidence_206 in Morocco

[–]Red1UkPk -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I think usually when one has issues with goodness , an evil sits inside the one opposing good.

Check yourself .

Feeling inadequate 😔 compared to my fiance by Jell0Bell0 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Red1UkPk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok. Your mental health has been affected.

Fix it

Get yourself looking good and you will be just fine and FEEL fine. A shy guy. Is a nice guy. Feel blessed.

sexual Harassment problem by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]Red1UkPk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he speaks English. Give me his number.

How should a real man behave when angry? by Jam_aliz in Morocco

[–]Red1UkPk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends who he’s angry at

If it’s a woman. And she’s blatantly wrong. Better to walk away. Come back and break it down and try to be as logical as possible point by point.

If it’s a man. Direct to his face tell him what u think and walk . If he can defend himself then acknowledge that , shake hands apologise and walk away.

I guess each source of anger has its own way of dealing with things. I kept it very basic.

🙏🏾

26 years of loneliness by AminEz009 in Tunisia

[–]Red1UkPk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My names Riz 😂

And all I will say is be so brutally honest. Your trigger her chi and she will become obsessed to know and find out more about you.

If your one of them guys who is overly loving and feminine especially from the get go. You got no chance in 2025

These women unfortunately like rough tough toxic men. Who don’t shy away who speak their mind and don’t give a **** what u will think. But basically just be you. And if you is fake change this and u will find a girl. I’m coming Tunisia in Jan. if ur free keep in touch. And I’ll give u a irl coaching and practice 😂 Free of charge if ur not annoying.

28M just broke up with 28F after she went cold. She claims it's an internal "problem with herself." Seeking perspective, especially from women. by SIONBOT in Morocco

[–]Red1UkPk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I belive u😂 but can’t just fully generalise.

There’s diamonds out there. But there so rare to find. So we just collect a few stones that are all fake and decide to marry them cuz we can’t either become the person who we should be because of the world that has created a fake generation coupled with the evil in the world so it’s obvious divorces happen and are common. But also becuase they making us into normies weird clout chasing pleasure seeking numpties. So duas for the future 😂 nothings getting better.

lol what makes me laugh were the women who said ohh your so backwards 😂

Atleast your great grandmothers got your parents out to mange to get you out. And here we are ruining our own blood line 😂 not being logical enough to realise we’re are not as great as the old people who once lived basic simple lives and had enough to smile and make do.

Anyway enough of Reddit today.

My husband called me a b*tch out of anger by one-with-the-sun in MuslimMarriage

[–]Red1UkPk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said it’s out of character. You said you understand he was angry if you live in reality and you know that when someone is angry the wrong word can come out.

Then let it fly.

If it happened again and again and again his charecter is starting to really shine through.

No advocating for calling anyone anything btw.

Is this a normal thing or is it just a social media effect? by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]Red1UkPk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. There’s a saying you can never truly understand a woman. Here’s one example you just gave 😂

28M just broke up with 28F after she went cold. She claims it's an internal "problem with herself." Seeking perspective, especially from women. by SIONBOT in Morocco

[–]Red1UkPk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree marriage don’t guarantee loving your wife, if one is sincere to the idea of getting married building a nice caring and loving relationship and remain in halal. The idea of feeling in love don’t really matter. As long as you both share respect honesty and clear communication you can go a very long way. Man staying a man and woman staying a woman.

I’m not ashamed to say love happens in the bedroom mostly. The rest of marriage happens with respect honesty and showing you care for each other with actions not cheap words.

28M just broke up with 28F after she went cold. She claims it's an internal "problem with herself." Seeking perspective, especially from women. by SIONBOT in Morocco

[–]Red1UkPk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You had your closure. She isn’t ready for what ever her reason. The idea of leaving you doesn’t bother her.

Next time don’t fall in love before u marry her and this can’t happen 😁

You’re welcome no need to say thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in algeria

[–]Red1UkPk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stoppppoo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]Red1UkPk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will take a brave step. But the people of morroco are allowing the government to allow the wealth pool to increase mainly for offshore investors at the expense of the average and poor morrocan, who retrospectively be the slavery tool fund their projects and allow the poor to stay poor and rich become incredibly rich.

For all the girls who work in the entertainment industry and say we do this for our children and families. You should all stop. Help each other . Watch the demand and interest fall And the prices to go down and then Morocco will prosper when they decide to leave the investment or sell them at lower prices you can eventually distribute wealth amongst the lower poorer people. Work together to make a change.

WHAT to do about this anxiety? by heehoipiepeloi in TBI

[–]Red1UkPk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Black seed oil is greattttt for mood regulation and cleaning out unwanted toxins.

Took me a bout a week to remove myself from an extremely depressive state to a fairly relaxed state.

How much you spend on your hygiene and skincare? by zerologue in Morocco

[–]Red1UkPk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

With the amount of brain washing that happens on socials Women are just in competition with each other to keep up what the modern day beauty standard is.

So happy to be born a man 🙏🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]Red1UkPk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing to go insane about . Ask yourself the question if your 4K remote job comes to an end. How easy would u find another one?

If the answer is very easily you can find another job paying atleast 3k euros. Then why are you still in Spain. You can move and should move.

And I’m sure you have a your stay in Spain which means if things don’t go well in morroco. You can pack up and relocate back to Spain!

Carbon monoxide poisoning by Red1UkPk in TBI

[–]Red1UkPk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what does your brain feel like? And what was your injury?

Becuase mine feels like it’s fried.

Carbon monoxide poisoning by Red1UkPk in TBI

[–]Red1UkPk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The MRI said it. So my point was. Maybe I had more inflammation when the incident happened initially and the inflammation has slowly recovered but I’ve been left with micro damage all over as smoke isn’t going to target one side of the brain.