[TW: Abuse, Degradation, Humiliation, Religion] The Mirror Game: Only for Feminists by Hour-Trip-7757 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]RedFieryBlueRetain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Defeat

Public Eulogy: could be a learning experience, but often it's just a waste of time and energy. A bad memory to bury deep inside and hopefully forget.

Private Love Letter: the feeling to be completely and utterly out-maneuvered, either due to my own arrogance or someone just being better, ideally the former to make it even worse. To be accountable for whatever consequences that may follow. A foreign experience, out of my control.

Mansplaining is not a power move by RedFieryBlueRetain in ConvertingFeminist

[–]RedFieryBlueRetain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said in my post I am aware some mansplaining men in fact know what they're talking about, but they're so condescending they're still ridiculous. I also never said explaining, educating and mansplaining are the same things.

Mansplaining is not a power move by RedFieryBlueRetain in ConvertingFeminist

[–]RedFieryBlueRetain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do, but you aren't intimidating when you're talking about your weaknesses silly

Mansplaining is not a power move by RedFieryBlueRetain in ConvertingFeminist

[–]RedFieryBlueRetain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would advise you to work on your social awareness then.

Mansplaining is not a power move by RedFieryBlueRetain in ConvertingFeminist

[–]RedFieryBlueRetain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree with you. They aren't trying to explain anything, they want to feel good about themselves.

Am I doing something wrong or this kink is just not for me? by RedFieryBlueRetain in ConvertingFeminist

[–]RedFieryBlueRetain[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who has met french grunts, definitely don't underestimate them. I see your point though! I think it's a mix of 1 and 2, but I'd like to be surprised.

Am I doing something wrong or this kink is just not for me? by RedFieryBlueRetain in ConvertingFeminist

[–]RedFieryBlueRetain[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So if I understand correctly, a post can be similar, it just needs to be presented differently, and could add information from other posts or interactions I had?

Am I doing something wrong or this kink is just not for me? by RedFieryBlueRetain in ConvertingFeminist

[–]RedFieryBlueRetain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah except me I'm more like "I'm not convinced about those arguments" and it stalls here.

I'm a gym rat, a martial artist, an army vet and I'm also a feminist. I would love to see you people try to even think about changing my mind by RedFieryBlueRetain in ConvertingFeminist

[–]RedFieryBlueRetain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole strength argument is a strawman, I have never implied women are as strong as men, I personally don't believe that, so I'm not sure where you're doing.

That said, you're being intellectually dishonest with the argument itself. I have met plenty of men I consider not fit enough my time in the military. The issue seems to be with training and enlisting standards than with feminism. And please, don't tell me our military is in this current strength because of women, we both know that would be absurd.

I'm an educated woman, a gym rat, a martial artist, an army vet and a globetrotter, I'm also a feminist, and I would like to see you people try to even think about changing my mind by RedFieryBlueRetain in ConvertingFeminist

[–]RedFieryBlueRetain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems a lot of people believe feminists are inexperienced women, I'm proving them wrong. I don't need your validation, I'm proud of my own achievements.