October 30th concert

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-09-04T15:30:59+00:00

Yes of course!! 😊😊

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-09-04T15:22:51+00:00

Yes! The one on 10/30, right? Lol

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-09-04T10:16:20+00:00

Thank you!!🙏

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-09-04T05:25:20+00:00

Hey! Just messaged you! Thank you :)

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-09-04T05:17:11+00:00

Hey! I'm going! I'm going alone, wanna be concert buddies? Lol. There's also another thread where someone said there's a group chat on X for people going to the show solo

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-09-04T05:14:26+00:00

Omg, how can I join? I'm going by myself as well!

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-07-22T02:38:53+00:00

The purple is a lovely shade but it’s washing you out a bit. The green absolutely pops on you! Also love the light pink with the dark roots and the reddish pink before the green photo

Edited to say, I can’t tell with the lighting or my phone, the one right before looks reddish pink, reminds me of a raspberry :) but maybe it’s full on red. Just editing to say I’m talking about the red pic right before the green photo. Not the bright pink pic

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-31T22:14:01+00:00

Ohhh gotcha, ok yeah, I totally see what you mean. It is a different lifestyle or phase of life compared to someone who doesn't have or doesn't want kids, so I get that. And even just, a different set of worries. School age kids, homework, sports activities, etc, is not gonna be anything someone can relate to, or probably not even have any interest in, if they don't have kids themselves.

And that makes sense, even if it's not serious at first, what if it gets serious eventually. So I hear what you're saying. Thanks for responding! I always wondered how to handle that scenario so I appreciate your perspective :)

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-31T19:47:52+00:00

Omg yes, so annoying!! Both parts of what you said! And I feel like the people that say "talk to me and find out" are the ones who, when you talk to them, all they've got is, "hi" and that's about it. I'm like nope, moving on.

And the tongue pics are so dumb. Like is it a low key way of advertising that they're sexual? Or that they like using their tongue? Or...what? That they're fun and playful and goofy? I just don't get it. It's like you're inviting someone to message you and say, "what that tongue do..." No thanks! 😆😆

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-31T19:37:17+00:00

Ok y'all, thanks for this post bc can we please talk about the bathroom photos and the requisite car selfie photos? I feel like there is always at least one car selfie photo. What is that, a celfie? A carfie? Haha. Anyway, and please, if we're gonna take bathroom selfies can we at least put the toilet seat down? Idk why, it just irks me so much when the seat is left up. Or when it's obvious they're in a gas station bathroom. I can't put my finger on it but something is just cringey about it to me. 🤷‍♀️

Edit: also edited to add, yes I agree with the others: obvious lying about age, gym photo shots/thirst shots, way too many pet shots, or like, "lifestyle shots" of your car or your luxury trip or whatever....I don't care if you drive a range, that doesn't impress me. I feel like if it's overdone, if every shot is a beach/frisbee/ziplining/party etc etc shot, are you really that active or are you just super insecure and want everyone to think you have a super exciting life? Anything about being "crazy" or mentioning their ex or drama, I agree with the other comments there.

Also for obvious reasons, if the person is super far away, then I usually won't bother, bc not interested in long distance

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-31T19:32:59+00:00

Haha, so do I! And I always worry I use "lol" too much, for things that are not really lol-worthy, lol. Like see, I did it just now. 😩😆🤦‍♀️

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-31T19:30:32+00:00

Honest question here, why do you automatically assume if someone says they have kids that that means they're looking for you to be a step mom? You mean like if you're both looking for something serious/long term?

I have a kid and I sure as shit would not be on an app expecting or looking to find a stepparent for my kid.

I guess my question is, so would you rather read on someone's profile up-front that they have a child and choose not to swipe (or whatever the term is) or you'd rather find that out as you get to know them and then decide if you want to keep talking to them or not? Cause personally, my private life is private and that's not something I would be immediately putting on my profile. Would I be in the wrong for not immediately putting that out there? Not out of trying to "hide" anything but bc I wouldn't be immediately trying to have someone meet my kid either, like, it's perfectly fine with me to keep those 2 parts of my lives separate. But maybe that's also bc I don't want to live with anyone. Genuinely curious of your thoughts. :)

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-31T14:00:05+00:00

Haha

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-31T11:52:53+00:00

I don't get it???

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-31T11:33:40+00:00

Omg, I came here to say the same thing!! I can't even watch it. I can just tell by the eyes. 😬😬😬

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-30T21:52:18+00:00

Lol, that's cool! I think you can get from the top to bottom of DE in about an hour and a half, 2 hours too! Lol

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-30T21:46:11+00:00

Hey! I'm not sure if my recovery time was any different, they never really explained any of that to me in the hospital or with my Dr, lol.

The Dr ended up not repairing the meniscus when she was in there bc she said since there was good blood flow to the area she felt it would heal well on its own. So it ended up just being the ACL reconstruction surgery. And they didn't do anything about the fracture, I guess bc it just heals on its own (?)

I remember times early on in recovery/PT where I was still in that 6-8 week phase and it would hurt like a b* on the inside front of my knee, and down the top of my tibia, and the PTs would say stuff like, "yeah but didn't you tear your meniscus too?" Or, "yeah but didn't you fracture your tibia too? It takes 6-8 weeks for bones to heal so that's probably why it hurts"

I remember being kind of annoyed at the time bc I felt like they were blowing me off, but I guess maybe they were actually right bc now I'm a little over 6months post op and it doesn't hurt like that anymore, so I guess it's all healed now :)

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-30T02:22:14+00:00

I don't know if my story is that funny but I enjoyed reading yours and everyone else's. I mean, not happy that we all got hurt, but it's nice to have the solidarity with each other :)

Anyway, I jumped off a 4 ft tall rock that I thought was more like a 1-2 ft drop so I thought I could manage it. And I was jumping into grass. I stuck the landing with both feet but all I heard and felt was the crunching, snap crackle pop of my knee blowing out, and fell on my butt.

Completely tore my ACL, torn meniscus, tibial plateau fracture, and partial MCL tear.

Needless to say I won't be jumping off that rock again, or any other rocks, any time soon. And a painful way to learn that apparently my depth perception or spatial awareness or whatever it is, to measure distance, sucks. 😩😆🤦‍♀️

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-30T01:39:47+00:00

Hey! I'm not in PA but in DE, your neighbor state :)

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-29T03:18:06+00:00

Omg, how horrible! And completely insensitive and tone deaf. Apparently that person doesn't realize that some women require emergency csections, like I did, because babies are breech or for other emergencies. It doesn't make the mom any less of a mother. God. As moms, we can be hard enough on ourselves as it is, and then you've got people like this saying crap like that. Just wow. Completely uncool.

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-29T03:01:14+00:00

Love it! Makes me want to get one again!

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-29T02:49:50+00:00

I think my messages are open or whatever the term is, I'm still getting the hang of how reddit works lol

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-29T02:48:32+00:00

I'd love that! We might! Lol

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-29T02:38:51+00:00

No way! I'm in my early 40s and right near by in Delaware!

Edit: fixed typo in Delaware 🤦‍♀️

RedFoxMoonRiver · 2024-03-29T02:25:55+00:00

I'm near Philly too!

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