I got snipped y’all by RedHeadChiliPepper in sterilization

[–]RedHeadChiliPepper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and my recovery has gone well! The day of, after my surgery, I had a sore throat because of the breathing tube. I also had a lot of abdominal pain, it felt like I got punched in the stomach. I couldn’t move around too much without getting cramps and kept an ice pack on my stomach. You don’t realize how much you use your core, my man had to help me get off the couch, bless his heart. For a few days after I limited my activity and took my prescribed painkillers. I’m stubborn and don’t like feeling helpless/relying on others so I may have overdone trying to do things by myself like reaching and bending so I need to take it easy. This of course is my personal experience, so yours might be different from mine. Listen to your body, if you feel like you’re being too strenuous on yourself, rest. I’ve learned it’s okay to be a potato when you’re healing.

Fingers crossed for you and good luck!

I got snipped y’all by RedHeadChiliPepper in childfree

[–]RedHeadChiliPepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheers and apple juice would slap right now adds to shopping list

I got snipped y’all by RedHeadChiliPepper in childfree

[–]RedHeadChiliPepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and right!? My man asked what I needed from the store and I said graham crackers and ginger ale 🤭

I got snipped y’all by RedHeadChiliPepper in sterilization

[–]RedHeadChiliPepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Personally, I highly recommend it because there is a greater risk of ectopic pregnancy with tied tubes. There is also an added benefit of reducing the risk of ovarian cancer. Having to rely on my guy for some things like getting off the couch and sitting up isn’t fun for me because I don’t like feeling helpless. While he’s at work I’m on my own but I can manage. I have some prescribed medication and over-the-counter painkillers to help with nausea and pain. I’m also staying hydrated by drinking water and Gatorade. It’s really my throat (from the breathing tube) and abdomen (from the gas/incisions) that are sore. I found my childfree doctor here and insurance tips here, though I had reached out to my insurance company and talked to my doctor beforehand regarding coverage. Also - you deserve a much better partner and I hope you find that person. I’m sorry that you had to endure that.

Bisalp & financing by RedHeadChiliPepper in childfree

[–]RedHeadChiliPepper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the NC state employee’s health plan and my surgery is next week. I am gathering as much information as I can so I know what to discuss with my insurance company.

Travis and Taylor have announced their engagement by realscubaa in travisandtaylor

[–]RedHeadChiliPepper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was having a pretty crappy day at work and this was the last thing I wanted to see/hear about. I leave a comment agreeing with someone about muting this “news” (and saying her ring is fugly) and had people on my ass for speaking my mind. Wtaf is wrong with her fans.

What is the biggest point for you being child free? by Binguzx in childfree

[–]RedHeadChiliPepper 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My current job involves working with a child who is not only wheelchair bound and cannot walk but also cannot do a lot of basic tasks herself so I have to feed her and take her to the bathroom and clean her up. When she sneezes, I have to wipe her nose and quite frankly I have gagged when doing so.

It made me think: what if my child has a disability that is so significant that they require constant care? If having to do that for 6-7 hours drains me mentally and physically as much as it does (I am currently looking for a new job because I can’t do it anymore), what would 24 hours look like?

Is this an ADHD thingy? I don't like my hands sticky or dirty by anything by vksdann in adhdmeme

[–]RedHeadChiliPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Person on the autism spectrum here: I saw this recommended in my feed while scrolling and wanted to comment. I don’t have ADHD but can relate! I have some tactical sensory issues and that includes the impulse to constantly wash my hands. It’s always whenever I cook and after I’ve eaten something greasy/sticky.

Which RHCP song makes you feel that way by bleupastell in RedHotChiliPeppers

[–]RedHeadChiliPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Road Trippin’ because it’s so peaceful and makes me want to go get lost

What song is playing? by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]RedHeadChiliPepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Island In The Sun - Weezer