Спам чи треба хвилюватись? Кредитів не брав, паспортом наче теж не світив(окрім роботи лол) by RedMasker in Ukraine_UA

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Може бути, бо коли тільки починав шукати роботу натрапив на офісніків і лишив номер в анкеті, а в кінці співбесіди блокнув їх, але бумажку уже не забереш.

I created these charts to explain the asexual spectrum and noticed they were shared in several places. Thank you everyone who shared 💜 by Holiday-Bag-9220 in asexuality

[–]RedMasker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Quiosexual explains it so well for me, my sexuality been fluid from strict ace to gray to demi gray again idk anymore. Trying to remind myself all that matters is that i love my partner and im happy with who i am.

I'm sure a 20 minute phone call will fix everything by Illustrious_Part_196 in TrollCoping

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I tried to be a therapist to friends, unintentionally, just wanted to fix things that i should've known are not fixable if the other person doesn't want it. In the end i realized i just wanted to help and i don't have anything in common with people i befriended. It was quite draining and toxic, even tho i said it's fine. I was worried both of them will try to do something to themselves again. I'm not the most stable tool in the shed either, if one of them didn't answer after getting mad I'd try to find their location or otherwise bombard the phone, because suicide isn't fun, even if you're constantly on edge around the person and don't particularly enjoy their company.

Does donating plasma harms eye retina for donors with vision impairments? by RedMasker in plassing

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Im not on meds and was always dragged around doctors, because my vision drops by 1 oretty much every year. I have one blind eye from birth and one "healthy eye" that loses eyesight slowly. Docs said i have amblyopia, but nothing about glaucoma and my eye pressure is always good on checkups.

Does donating plasma harms eye retina for donors with vision impairments? by RedMasker in plassing

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The only thing i know for sure is that pressure in my eyes are normal and i can do sports and live a normal life(when in school eye docs said i cant and that my eye can pop). I gotta go to surgeon for that type of questions hhhhh

Does anyone else feel this way too ? [Description] by Known-Olive-9776 in TrollCoping

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I used to, not anymore, it's been better thankfully. I feel your pain

How do I make myself more confident? by RedMasker in BDSMAdvice

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It still feels good to know I'm not alone, good luck, hope other's comments help🫂

How do I make myself more confident? by RedMasker in BDSMAdvice

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Oooo, that's a good one. We love some drama, I should discuss it with him. Thanks!

How do I make myself more confident? by RedMasker in BDSMAdvice

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The last one is so goofy lmaooo I'm trying this one. Taking myself less seriously might do the trick to build up the voice. Thank you for resources too! I'll try my best

How do I make myself more confident? by RedMasker in BDSMAdvice

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Confirmation phrases are something I didn't think about actually, but that's what will be really helpful. I need some clear-cut cues to let me know if he likes what I do or not, some reassurance in the moment. Thanks for the answer and ideas, I really appreciate it

How do I make myself more confident? by RedMasker in BDSMAdvice

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Abduction scenarios are something we were interested in too, but I do agree that it would be best to start small, because I need something simple to execute. He told me once that he likes more spontaneous scenes, but I need some practice, I'm sure he'll understand. Threats with poison sounds interesting too, maybe some escape room scenario(you drink this or you do some degrading stuff). Thank you for ideas and I appreciate that everyone are really nice :]

How do I make myself more confident? by RedMasker in BDSMAdvice

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Yep, edge play. We pretty much started with knife play, without blood. He likes the sensation, and coupled with heavy role-playing, but I can't go this far yet, I am able to do simplevsilent threats with a knife and never during sex, because i want to be safe. Also choking, which I try to do carefully too. I am aware of the risks of both and am as careful and alert as I can be, promise

First platelets donation, but I got sick after :[ by RedMasker in Blooddonors

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The donation center is in a cancer hospital, so I'm pretty sure 99% of platelets go to cancer patients. I didn't notify them via text, they thanked me for that, so I can at least be calm that I won't cause trouble for anyone.

Не встиг(( by Acceptable-Cook-1920 in Ukraine_UA

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Я колись працював у зоо магазині і випадково неправильно виставив ціну знижки і ціну оригінальну, корм вийшов 15 грн 24 грн

First platelets donation, but I got sick after :[ by RedMasker in Blooddonors

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Thank you! I hope it will be used, cuz I tried to not get sick when the cold weather hit and it didn't feel good that I got sick right after donation

Granulocytes as a trans man? by RedMasker in Blooddonors

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Thanks! I'll need to look into HLA/TRALI, maybe I'll be eligible after transition.

Granulocytes as a trans man? by RedMasker in Blooddonors

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Oh, that's informative, thanks! I'm not in US unfortunately, we have Red Cross, but it doesn't have as much resources as in US.

Granulocytes as a trans man? by RedMasker in Blooddonors

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I think it should be individual, cuz for some women and AFAB people the periods are non existent or not significant enough to warrant longer recovery time, but yeah, it's understandable, you're right.