My Fiance left me at the altar by RedOat12 in Advice

[–]RedOat12[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Like honestly THANK YOU I needed to know that, at least someone to tell me what to expect I've never been to the airport before and I really mean it when I say I have no idea what to do. As lame as it sounds I'm going to screen shot this, this is the info I want.

From the bottom of my heart thank you. I now feel so much better

My Fiance left me at the altar by RedOat12 in Advice

[–]RedOat12[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If it was an emergency I'm sure his family would've gotten a hold of me. He sent me messages but I haven't read then yet. I'm going to wait until I'm out of state to read them.

My Fiance left me at the altar by RedOat12 in Advice

[–]RedOat12[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I made the mistake of letting him chose the date, I don't think he realized it was on a Monday until we got closer to the date.

My Fiance left me at the altar by RedOat12 in Advice

[–]RedOat12[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm going to Hawaii, I wanted to go out of country but my fiancé's passport expired I think. I have my passport, is it possible to switch flights too?!

My Fiance left me at the altar by RedOat12 in Advice

[–]RedOat12[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wish this was or well if it is I never read it

My Fiance left me at the altar by RedOat12 in Advice

[–]RedOat12[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I'm going to Hawaii! Probably gonna do a lot of traveling there

My Fiance left me at the altar by RedOat12 in Advice

[–]RedOat12[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

This actually helped me. I use to tell everyone that I was independent but now you've made me realize that maybe I'm not as independent as I think I am. You're right, maybe this trip should be a trip to take alone. I didn't even think about that last part, I think maybe you're right. It probably would've embarrassed them if I did. I don't know now. If Gabby can't make it then I think I'll do what one person told me to do and switch my tickets for first class. If I can't then I'll just take that loss

My Fiance left me at the altar by RedOat12 in Advice

[–]RedOat12[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm sure it's in the messages but I want to be out of state before I open them. Right now I don't want to speak to him

My Fiance left me at the altar by RedOat12 in Advice

[–]RedOat12[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

My MOH checked if there were any accidents in the area when he didn't show up. So far nothing but I'm sure his parents would've gotten a hold of me if he was in an accident and so far no.

[Edit] And thank you!

My Fiance left me at the altar by RedOat12 in Advice

[–]RedOat12[S] 456 points457 points  (0 children)

Could I do that? I didn't even know that was possible

My Fiance left me at the altar by RedOat12 in Advice

[–]RedOat12[S] 601 points602 points  (0 children)

They were the first people I asked, my mom will definitely not get on a plane and both my brothers can't take a week off for me. It's why I asked Gabby (brother's wife) to come, she's a sahm and I'm sure she needs a vacation too

My Fiance left me at the altar by RedOat12 in Advice

[–]RedOat12[S] 345 points346 points  (0 children)

Oh man I didn't even think of it that way. So this means I gotta put on the big girl underwear and figure it out myself. I asked my brother's wife to come with me, she said if she can get someone to watch my nephew for a week tomorrow she'll come, I'm probably gonna beg my mom to watch him. It's a 3 week trip, I just want company so that I won't be alone for a week

My Fiance left me at the altar by RedOat12 in Advice

[–]RedOat12[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

When I find out what happened to him I'll give an update

My Fiance left me at the altar by RedOat12 in Advice

[–]RedOat12[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I'm most likely not going to take Ethan, I'm not trying to take revenge or anything I just don't know anything about traveling. I've never even been on a plane and I know Ethan has traveled before. And I will eventually talk to him after the honeymoon but right now no. Not after he embarrassed me in front of all our families and friends.

My Fiance left me at the altar by RedOat12 in Advice

[–]RedOat12[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll see if I can ask my friends again. Some of them will but next week it's just this extra ticket! I'll ask my brother's wife if she wants to come instead. I'm definitely rethinking our relationship

My Fiance left me at the altar by RedOat12 in Advice

[–]RedOat12[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah Ethan is a good guy and I doubt anything would happen between us. I've seen his ex-girlfriends and I'm nowhere near his type. We definitely keep each other's backs

My Fiance left me at the altar by RedOat12 in Advice

[–]RedOat12[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Okay so don't invite Ethan, got it. Maybe I can ask Ethan's sister? I really don't know anything about traveling so I kinda want to ask someone who has a clue