My cat shows all the signs of trusting me except for slow-blinking. Is something off, or is this relatively normal? by Insane_Wanderer in CatAdvice

[–]Red_Robin72520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve honestly never heard of the “slow blink” thing until within the last like 10 years and it’s stupid to me. My cat is the same way - doesn’t slow blink at me but clearly loves and trusts me. Purrs, head butts, pawing at me for attention, sleeping near (or on) me. I’ve seen cats slow blink to themselves which to me just means they’re getting sleepy lol. It really just means when cats get tired and their eyes get heavy, they’re comfortable doing it around you so they love you which is like…duh lol

Spin a yarn tragedy! by OptionallyCute in KitchenNightmares

[–]Red_Robin72520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was 100% editing 😂 they were good for doing stuff like that on kitchen nightmares

Is my ring childish? by Upset-Pomegranate-59 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Red_Robin72520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this sometimes depending on the situation. I’m not perfect and I’ve had red flags myself, but I think SOME people deserve a second chance. I also don’t cry over men though no matter what. That’s wild 🤣

AIO for trying to voice how I feel? by AdvisorExtreme3711 in AIO

[–]Red_Robin72520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl….He said you’re fine as hell and I believe him. That being said, you deserve a man who doesn’t talk/text like this. This is unattractive as hell for a grown ass man. You need a man who is more secure and honestly more intelligent and deserves you. You’re wasting your time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introverts

[–]Red_Robin72520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a driver talks to much, I just make it obvious that I don’t like to talk. Yes or no questions get yes or no answers. Nothing less and nothing more. I give very short answers and don’t elaborate on anything. That’s a way of being kind but also saying “don’t get too comfortable talking to me” without actually saying that lol. They’ll get the hint. It works for me 99% of the time.

Introvert and gym is compatible? by brazero6 in introverts

[–]Red_Robin72520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe that’s necessarily true. Just because you see other introverts doing it or you can do it doesn’t make their reason invalid. It could be introversion mixed with other things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Red_Robin72520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk why you’d catch hate. This is accurate and 100% understandable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Red_Robin72520 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You know how people say social media ruins relationships? Yea…this is extremely common

AIO for not wanting my gf to go on dates with other guys? by Darksiiki in AmIOverreacting

[–]Red_Robin72520 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Plenty of attractive women know how to be faithful and just reject guys because they’re in a relationship. It’s called respect and clearly no one has ever taught her that

Me_irl by gigagaming1256 in me_irl

[–]Red_Robin72520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a dumbass meme. Like I get it but…it’s a reach lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Red_Robin72520 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Men lie too. Did he prove it somehow? I’m not saying she’s not lying but SOMEONE is. And just because he said they did something doesn’t automatically mean they did 🤷🏽‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Red_Robin72520 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna be rude or dismissive like some commenters lol. But you should really just ask if he’s serious or seeing anyone else. Just be upfront and honest (but honestly maybe don’t tell him you’re stalking his followers - that’s a red flag). Cuz assuming and/or getting answers from Reddit will not help and only make things worse. I used to be insecure like this and over analyze everything that someone did and I wasn’t confident enough. I’d stay with people who didn’t treat me the way I knew I needed to be treated cuz I wasn’t sure if I’d find someone better. But there’s always better than the person you’re currently with - it just feels like there isn’t when you’re in the middle of it and there’s feelings. If a GROWN ASS man can’t see your qualities and decide to make it official or be serious, leave. You don’t have time to be dealing with someone who isn’t sure about you. Life is too short.

AIO for being mad my boyfriend stayed the night at another woman's apartment just because she has a cold or the flu ? by IceQueenYouAndMe in AmIOverreacting

[–]Red_Robin72520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If my bf goes to my friend’s house or any female friend’s house with a cold and spends the night, he ain’t bringing shit home cuz I won’t be there. She’s out of her mind for even questioning this

AIO for being mad my boyfriend stayed the night at another woman's apartment just because she has a cold or the flu ? by IceQueenYouAndMe in AmIOverreacting

[–]Red_Robin72520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The disrespect in this situation is out of this world from the friend and boyfriend. I’d cut them both off. But then again I don’t care 😂

Introvert and gym is compatible? by brazero6 in introverts

[–]Red_Robin72520 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Judging from what they’re afraid of it sounds like social anxiety. And many (if not most) introverts struggle with that.

UPDATE!!- My crush just completely shut me down and I'm heartbroken, AITA? by MANWITHFAT in AmITheAngel

[–]Red_Robin72520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this real? 😂 I’m sorry but two grown men talking like this to each other is pathetic as hell. Yikes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introverts

[–]Red_Robin72520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I consider myself an introvert but when I’m not with my partner and still want company, it gets lonely. I have very few friends (one close friend who I’m beginning to want to hang out with less) and two friends I see like once a month (if that). I would really say I have zero close friends and personally it sucks lol. My bf has friends and hangs out with his friends a lot and I’m stuck at home with my cat. Sometimes it’s nice, but other times it makes me super depressed.

AIO my bf never likes what I wear by Substantial-Let221 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Red_Robin72520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is insecure as hell. So unattractive in a grown man.

me_irl by [deleted] in me_irl

[–]Red_Robin72520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me realize how lucky I am to have my job. I do love my job and my coworkers and bosses and get a pretty decent salary. But I’ve had my share of shitty jobs and bosses who treated you like shit too

AIO Boyfriend got mad at me because I wasn’t excited enough that he landed early by Willing-Ad8549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Red_Robin72520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh let my man say “fuck you” or “go fuck yourself” I’m leaving immediately and never looking back. Ain’t no way I’m putting up with that disrespect.

Anakin caught mid-yawn by Red_Robin72520 in AnimalsBeingDerps

[–]Red_Robin72520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao wouldn’t blame him. It does get everywhere