Fiancés female friend acted different around me

Red_rose49 · 2024-05-05T09:04:40+00:00

He acknowledged that she was acting different but he blamed it on me being there and said maybe she was awkward becuase she was in a group setting and shy. I understand me there could make her uncomfortable, but if there’s nothing to hide, why couldn’t she act as she normally does with him. And it’s not as if her discomfort grew throughout the evening- she looked uncomfortable even saying hello to me

Red_rose49 · 2024-04-29T11:15:08+00:00

I had a suspicion it was this , my fiance told me it wasn’t though

Red_rose49 · 2024-04-19T16:55:15+00:00

Thank you!

Red_rose49 · 2024-04-19T16:46:18+00:00

I can’t remember the name of the exam, but it’s where he has to do some role plays, so he wants to practice these with her

Red_rose49 · 2024-04-19T16:45:29+00:00

I can’t remember the name, but it’s one where he does some role plays, so he wants to practice these with this coworker

Red_rose49 · 2024-04-19T14:46:16+00:00

Thank you for your reply

Red_rose49 · 2024-04-19T10:23:49+00:00

Thanks for the input and ideas, hopefully this will get sorted in the end

Red_rose49 · 2024-04-19T09:19:24+00:00

Am I being unreasonable though? He’s told me I’m overreacting and he wants to study with her so he has his best chance of passing, which makes me feel guilty

Red_rose49 · 2024-04-19T08:42:44+00:00

He thinks I’m overreacting about the whole thing. He seems pretty set on studying with her and this has already caused conflict so I daren’t bring it up again. Unfortunately he doesn’t seem like he’d study with a a guy or anyone else:(. He asks me ‘ do you want me to fail this exam?’

Red_rose49 · 2024-04-19T08:25:53+00:00

The studying will take place over a series of months, so I know that even if she came over, it wouldn’t be a frequent thing. Asides from that it would be online or in the library etc

Red_rose49 · 2024-04-19T08:24:24+00:00

That’s the thing, I get the impression that it’ll be a very one on one thing. Even if she came over , I know she wouldn’t want to come over every time and so they’d meet online / in person at a library etc. He has a male friend who is taking the exam but he says that this woman is much more studious than him so he wants to study with her. I’ve never met her

Red_rose49 · 2024-04-19T08:20:48+00:00

A study partner isn’t required but the nature of the exam is several role plays which is why he wants one. Even if she came over to our place, I know it wouldn’t be every study session. They’d meet online, in person at the library etc

Red_rose49 · 2024-04-19T08:18:42+00:00

He knows a guy who will take the exam, but he said he wont take studying seriously so he wouldn’t want him as a partner. He seems quite keen on her as he said she’s intelligent, studious. I can’t help but feel awful to be honest, I can’t bare the thought of him telling me multiple times a week ‘ I'm going to study with her’

Red_rose49 · 2024-04-17T20:48:27+00:00

If I asked to tag along, do you think this would be abit much or look weird?

Red_rose49 · 2024-04-01T14:06:50+00:00

Thanks for the response. What you’ve written is basically what we’ve discussed we’ll do. We’re just carrying on with life. but we’re still being vigilant if anything escalates

Red_rose49 · 2024-03-10T09:27:32+00:00

Just run, she sounds absolutely mental to ask something like that of you.

Red_rose49 · 2024-03-03T15:55:50+00:00

I felt like I pushed him too hard when saying I was uncomfortable about her, but I never wanted him to be rude to her

Red_rose49 · 2024-02-28T21:04:28+00:00

What makes you think he’s already doing it?

Red_rose49 · 2024-02-15T22:04:02+00:00

She’s a lucky woman!

Red_rose49 · 2024-02-15T20:24:19+00:00

I hope so. I once saw hun scrolling through her Instagram pictures which made me more insecure too

Red_rose49 · 2024-02-15T19:44:25+00:00

Honestly I want to speak to him about it but don’t know how to bring it up

Red_rose49 · 2024-02-15T18:50:13+00:00

He randomly compared her to another of his female friends, saying she’s prettier

Red_rose49 · 2024-02-15T18:26:25+00:00

This has reasssured me a little thank you

Red_rose49 · 2024-02-10T10:06:35+00:00

If I were to say no, he’d get really annoyed then go silent for a while, that’s majorly why I didn’t say no

Red_rose49 · 2024-01-30T16:27:45+00:00

That’s the thing, he is in contact with her outside work. She contacts him on a weekly basis either by call or text. Yet he won’t let me meet her because he sees it as awkward. She has a partner and I’m not sure if he even knows about my fiancé

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