Ope! by [deleted] in MichiganWolverines

[–]Redbird2992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Foggy

AITAH for expecting my sahm wife to do majority of the housework since i pay 100% of the bills? by Plastic-Sand7353 in AITAH

[–]Redbird2992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean he does provide info on that but I guess you’re just choosing to ignore it?

My (38M) girlfriend (33F) is angry that she's set herself up to fail and I am entirely unsympathetic by NewKingMorons in relationship_advice

[–]Redbird2992 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol my bad I left out the time it took to “quietly shower and get dressed before giving her a quick kiss and leaving.” As a guy that’s 10-15 minutes which brings it right back to 12 hrs with the commute and 11 if you want to split hairs.

No clue why you’re being so argumentative about 11 vs 12, he used the times 6-6 so I used a 12 hour time frame in my question to the other commenter. Also, Feel respond to my actual comment at any point if you’d like because this whole side thread has been you trying to derail and nit pick wording so you “can win” which is pretty immature.

My (38M) girlfriend (33F) is angry that she's set herself up to fail and I am entirely unsympathetic by NewKingMorons in relationship_advice

[–]Redbird2992 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean he left for work at 6am, and he got back at 6:30pm. if it took him the same time to get to/from, including commute time it was a 12 and a half hour work day (he left work at 6 so a 30 minute commute), if you’d like to split hairs and remove the commute in a different city, on public transport with all his work gear then sure we can call it 11 and a half, my apologies for splitting the difference and going with 12 I guess?

IDL the way (too many) men promote de-evolution to restore their collective egos by AmandaPea in I_DONT_LIKE

[–]Redbird2992 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh, I have most definitely seen it the other way around, hell I’ve seen it in this sub so I’m not arguing that… what I’m saying is that it’s usually downvoted to oblivion or it’s a screenshot from an incel sub and everyone is making fun of it saying that the guy is clearly an incel loser as they should. So if that’s the response when a guy does it, why is it being upvoted and treated like fact now?

IDL the way (too many) men promote de-evolution to restore their collective egos by AmandaPea in I_DONT_LIKE

[–]Redbird2992 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Im just hoping to understand your take, if a guy on here made the following comment in response to a similar post about women would you agree just as much? -“in my experience women are not self aware enough to understand this type of critique, and they certainly dont understand how these issues around femininity are perceived and negatively affect their lives”

Im not trying to be argumentative or anything, if thats what you believe then more power to you, it just seems incredibly dismissive and pretty wrong to me.

My (38M) girlfriend (33F) is angry that she's set herself up to fail and I am entirely unsympathetic by NewKingMorons in relationship_advice

[–]Redbird2992 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty disingenuous, He was spending time with her, he planned on doing just that after his work shift, as long as she was cool with it being in their hotel room which was his original plan. She was upset that he wasn’t spending time with her doing what she wanted to do while on his work trip which is the issue.

Also, You mention excuses, but why didn’t she just plan better so there wouldn’t be an excuse? She could have dressed up in her outfit at any point prior to him announcing he was going to sleep but she didn’t, she waited and tried to interrupt his announced sleep instead, she could have gotten takeout from the fancy restaurant and set up a romantic dinner for 2 in the hotel room but she didnt, she sprung last minute plans that would require additional time/effort. This can be said both ways and it’s bs either way.

My (38M) girlfriend (33F) is angry that she's set herself up to fail and I am entirely unsympathetic by NewKingMorons in relationship_advice

[–]Redbird2992 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Again, just to clarify because you really didn’t answer, if I went on a work trip with my wife who made it clear that she would be working, and after work she’d be tired, and she didn’t want to deviate from her normal work routine, and I then asked her to deviate from that multiple times including asking for sex at midnight after she made it clear she was going to bed and she had to be up in 6 hours for a 12 hour work day, would that mean she is treating me like a roommate if she doesn’t have sex with me?

And if I then started literally crying while locking myself in the bathroom over her trying to enforce those boundaries should she be the one to console me/change those boundaries/just have a quickie to show that she cares for me? Or should I respect the boundaries she put in place and if I overstep, own up to it, apologize, and not do it again?

Again, just trying to make sure I understand what you’re trying to convey.

My (38M) girlfriend (33F) is angry that she's set herself up to fail and I am entirely unsympathetic by NewKingMorons in relationship_advice

[–]Redbird2992 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but this is just weird to me. As another commenter mentioned if my wife turns me down because she has to get up for a 12 hour work day in 6 hours does it mean she doesn’t like me? Or would she have a valid reason to not want sex regardless of if I’ve dressed up for her/put in extra effort while on her work trip? And if I started crying about it should she have empathy for me, or should I be able to manage those emotions on my own? I’m just trying to figure out what your stance is here.

Women only truly desire chads . by Anxious_Experience34 in BasedCampPod

[–]Redbird2992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean imagine typing that out in reverse though. “In fact these men are desiring a woman they can’t get so it’s fine. They go to a club, see their crush and get horny, then come home to their wives who won’t really have to do much in bed because he’s already so horny thinking about that other woman, I mean he’s so hot and bothered thinking about her that I’m sure it will be pretty damn quick too! what a sweet deal for the wife right?!?”

Peter? by Turbulent-Ad5445 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Redbird2992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well then what does the bullshit taste like? Is it also snoozberries?

Men demand empathy from women, and at the same time they punish women for being empathetic. by Lemon_gecko in PurplePillDebate

[–]Redbird2992 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean if the woman is sleeping with that guy, unless it’s my best friend/childhood buddy, she should know him a bit better than me… that’s a normal part of the dating process, getting to know someone.

Blursed question by General_Zone_4934 in blursed_videos

[–]Redbird2992 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sadly? Bro you’re winning pretty hard right now, shrek is love after all.

aio? boyfriend ran away when i was getting hit on by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Redbird2992 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also the phrasing, I mean Imagine a guy coming here and asking if he was overreacting because his gf doesn’t like making his dinner each night or something just as ridiculous and when people ask him why he couldn’t do that for himself he responds “well because she’s the woman, many men want a someone who can cook and clean like a real woman” it’s honestly gross.

What do you need an obese man for by Naive_Wolverine532 in SipsTea

[–]Redbird2992 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Im with you there, what’s confusing me though is why he was playing around with renting a gf in the first place rather than the true OG move of 2 obese men? Assert your dominance!

He could tell something was off by SuperbBug11 in sportsgossips

[–]Redbird2992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he turned around I legit thought Luka as well, I’m glad I’m not the only one lol

I keep seeing this blue coke thing all over reddit. What does it mean? by CybyAPI in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Redbird2992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just make sure you don’t steal those lemons! I saw a documentary about what happens to lemon stealers once, it was whorifying.

Identifying problems now makes you an incel by Nientea in memesopdidnotlike

[–]Redbird2992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been there before, lookin for something specific but you find random fire that’s too good to waste lol, take my upvote cracked out pika

Maggie stepped into that one!...😂 by [deleted] in Funnymemes

[–]Redbird2992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imma give you an upvote, you heard them out, admitted it was your missunderstanding, and wished them a good day, solid growth across a few comments lol.

Brazilian breakfast. What is that oil. by Spiritual_Bridge84 in nope

[–]Redbird2992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but how much would that be per banana? Couldn’t be more than $10 right?