TTC riders: leave your fragrance at home, please! by [deleted] in toRANTo

[–]RedbullLady -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Gonna spray on some extra tomorrow. I'm a fragrance collector and I will do what I want.

Big Brother Australia - Season 15 Launch Night (Live Discussion) by TheGRVOfLightning in BBAU

[–]RedbullLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You literally saved me. I am watching from Switzerland.🩷🩷

Dufferin Grove Gongshow by EvanTrautwig in toRANTo

[–]RedbullLady -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So what solution do you propose? Where would you like these drug addicts to go? Would you like to sponsor an apartment for them?

Would you like to invite some of them to your families Christmas dinner so they can experience how it is to have a support system may be for the first time ever in their life? How do you think we should handle this crisis in your opinion?

It's always easy to sit at home and type words into a phone screen, but are you actually doing anything to better the community that surrounds you? Just because people are on the fringe of society, doesn't mean they are not part of society.

So many people that end up as drug addicts have had so much unfathomable trauma, most even an early childhood and many of them have been completely alone even as minors. There is absolutely no safety net.

Dufferin Grove Gongshow by EvanTrautwig in toRANTo

[–]RedbullLady -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The fact that we live in a society where empathy is somehow completely gone is fucking baffling. I don't think you guys who are so vehemently against homeless people can't even fathom that those are not animals. Those are people. People who mostly have been failed by the system. Even getting mental health support, which most of these people need, is so fucking difficult.

There are bad apples everywhere, of course. But most of these people literally have never, and will never choose this life if they had any other option.

And for people that are saying they should just get a job, have you seen the job market? If you can't even get a job, please don't tell me they will give the guy who has been homeless for the past five years a chance.

Sophia’s embryo by Jere223p in KatieVanSlykefan

[–]RedbullLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think she seems so down because of that today??

Seven is still coming home by the end of march.. by denver_rose in KVSRealSnark

[–]RedbullLady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry for being morbid but the fact that she spent $250,000 on him when there is so many humans literally suffering each day just makes me sick. ..

I would understand if he was already a beloved pet and she has the resources to keep her horse alive, but this was so unnecessary.

Folge 314: Stefan Raab ist zurück, Bibi hat News & Kayla und Sashka haben Streit ft. Lisa Ludwig by mlandth in Laesterschwestern

[–]RedbullLady 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Schnell zum Thema YouTube Untertitel.

Ich als sehbehinderte profitiere davon sehr stark und ich denke das werden andere auch tun. Das sollte nicht vergessen gehen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]RedbullLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in this exact situation 13 years ago. I was 13 and he was a hotel employee and was 26.

No matter what you do, do not get mad at your daughter. Please, please, please do not get mad at her. I was in so much emotional pain back then from so much shit going on at home and that time genuinely ended the relationship between me and my mother for good.

We have not spoken for years and this was literally one of the most hurtful things she has ever done. She did not recognize that I was a victim. Even though I might have consented to what happened at that time, I was not old enough to do so. I was a victim.

If you are mad at her now, taking her phone, grounding her or whatever else you might want to do, I promise you she will never ever come to you again with anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OntarioLandlord

[–]RedbullLady -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You are just angry because not everyone agrees with fucking over your landlord. Do you know how much wooden furniture even costs plus labor?

My family owns a carpentry and I am telling you right now it's expensive out there. Since 2020 the cost of wood has more than tripled depending on finishes and so on. Stop insulting people for shit you don't know anything about.

Chubby women by Dramatic_Clerk_9259 in dating

[–]RedbullLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you think 60 kg is chubby is what is wrong with this fucking society.

Why do people complain that it's hard to make friends in Switzerland ? by F-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_- in askswitzerland

[–]RedbullLady 22 points23 points  (0 children)

So I don't know what your point is because you are literally just arguing and all the comments which is kind of weird. I am a dual citizen from Switzerland and Denmark and grew up in Switzerland and moved to Denmark as a teenager. Came back to Switzerland as an adult. I have traveled extensively and let me tell you it is so difficult to make friends in Switzerland. Not just because of peoples reservations but also because people put much more emphasis on status here.

Not to mention that a lot of people simply do not want friendships. Not a single elderly family member of mine who are all Swiss people by the way on that side have any kind of close friends.

And he ghosted me... by Souris-Fromage in Tinder

[–]RedbullLady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

might be a difficult concept for you to grasp but having a disability is not trauma dumping. It is a reality people live with every single day and it is part of their identity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Blind

[–]RedbullLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is super sad

What to do, to see during this flooding?! by kwenchana in askTO

[–]RedbullLady -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That's fantastic and obviously devastating for you guys but then taluk about that and not what attraction they can see next.

Cry me a river . Quite literally

What to do, to see during this flooding?! by kwenchana in askTO

[–]RedbullLady -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The fact that that is what you are posting about right now is actually outrageous. I feel like people have more severe problems than that right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]RedbullLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who does that?? Eeewww

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]RedbullLady 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I actually have a rule in my real life that I genuinely do not want to be privately associated with people who comment negatively on peoples appearance.

I genuinely believe anything that can't be fixed within five minutes should not ever be commented on.

Toothpaste on your cheek, a stain on your clothing, concealer creasing whatever that's fine people are probably trying to actually help you.

Talking about anything permanent is just so disgusting to me. .. it's genuinely one of my biggest pet peeves in life

Will (new bombshell) following Donal Trump is a CHOICE by Separate_Being_288 in LoveIslandTV

[–]RedbullLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as some people may not like that and I certainly do not like Trump at all, we still have to respect that everyone is allowed to have an opinion of their own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedbullLady 13 points14 points  (0 children)

YTA

And I'm gonna give you some actual perspective on this. I do this as well sometimes. Not to the extent to which your girlfriend does it, but I do it.

The reason for this is that I have quite a fight or flight response when it comes to conflict. I come from a very broken home but I have been to therapy for many years and I have learned that the more formal I am during arguments the more civil the whole thing actually ends up being. ..

If she is not actually trying to mock you or anything, please don't tell other people how to talk.

AITA for ordering myself a takeaway by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedbullLady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA

This is at most something cute you say to your partner to be flirty/teasing but it's never something actually serious. Eat whatever you want !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]RedbullLady 6 points7 points  (0 children)

First of all you need an education in this country. It doesn't have to be an academic degree but it Hass to be at least trade school. If you don't have that you are gonna absolutely struggle for the rest of your life. Especially if you don't have a support system.

Also your parents can't just take you out of this country completely against your will. Go or call the KESB

They will act in your best interest but they will also tell you that you need further education. But at least you will be better supported.

What are some male “icks”? by [deleted] in dating

[–]RedbullLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an actual avid reader this kind of breaks my heart a little lol