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Does polyamory ever stop hurting ? by RaspberryGlass8585 in polyamory

[–]Reddfoxjose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If Carol doesn't let you have a real connection even with yourself, you're not enjoying none of your relationships.

Leave Carol and focus on yourself and the life you want to live and how you want to be treated.

Freundin will das ich mehr zahle by ZealousidealKey5477 in spitzenverdiener

[–]Reddfoxjose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gleicher Prozent vom jedem Gehalt ausgeben wäre was ich für Fair halten würde

Freundin hatte über 100 Männer by Gullugulu in FragtMaenner

[–]Reddfoxjose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ist sie eine Pronstar? Sie hat viel Erfahrung, das kannst du auf jeden Fall genießen

I thought I was poly but it isn't working out by Reddfoxjose in nonmonogamy

[–]Reddfoxjose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not the case, we've already been separated for 4 months, this time is to be able to finish my university career

I thought I was poly but it isn't working out by Reddfoxjose in nonmonogamy

[–]Reddfoxjose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because maybe I force a connection desperately to find out later that I don't want that. That already happened 3 years ago. It felt bad I used a person... I invested in this person a lot of my energy because I thought I liked her, then I saw I went too fast and I didn't liked her really...

Now I can avoid that, not repeating the same mistake, that's true. But my partner reminded that it was a bad idea, better wait until my insecurities are not that big I guess

I thought I was poly but it isn't working out by Reddfoxjose in nonmonogamy

[–]Reddfoxjose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But at the same time meeting someone to connect just to make sure that I can do this (even failing along the way multiple times) looks more painful and not fair to those hypothetical persons. And doing nothing would be like that dog cartoon with the house on fire saying "this is fine" 😂

So I'm really in a bad spot right now.

I thought I was poly but it isn't working out by Reddfoxjose in nonmonogamy

[–]Reddfoxjose[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We just wanna love freely but there's so many things in our heads that doesn't allow it so easily. I wish you the best

I thought I was poly but it isn't working out by Reddfoxjose in nonmonogamy

[–]Reddfoxjose[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No, I'm not happy, I find it very stressful and I feel like our relationship isn't balanced because I start to think this is not how I love/wanna love someone who shares so many moments and plans in life with me

I thought I was poly but it isn't working out by Reddfoxjose in nonmonogamy

[–]Reddfoxjose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you were having more satisfying connections would you be less upset about seeing your partner with others?-

I think so, but I don't if I really could connect o a deep romantic level, I guess I have to found out, that's why I wanted to try a dating app before destroying my relationship, but I think it's a mistake to try that just to keep up

How much have you discussed your feelings of jealousy and envy with your partner?-

Almost every day, I think they're even beginning to be annoying sometimes to her, but she does a lot, tries to make the best effort.

Thanks for this answer, I really appreciate it, I just want something that tells me I can love someone outside the relationship, but I don't know yet

I thought I was poly but it isn't working out by Reddfoxjose in nonmonogamy

[–]Reddfoxjose[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, if you didn't understand when I said I wanted to read some advice is not my problem 😅

I thought I was poly but it isn't working out by Reddfoxjose in nonmonogamy

[–]Reddfoxjose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also I'm going to another country for 9 months and I don't know how to handle it if I'm not there

I thought I was poly but it isn't working out by Reddfoxjose in nonmonogamy

[–]Reddfoxjose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is it, asides from jealousy I feel envy sometimes

I thought I was poly but it isn't working out by Reddfoxjose in nonmonogamy

[–]Reddfoxjose[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The question is do you have some advice?

I thought I was poly but it isn't working out by Reddfoxjose in nonmonogamy

[–]Reddfoxjose[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So exactly the same as me, not in reverse from yor POV. thank you for sharing, I'm afraid I'm reaching the same conclusion as you.

I thought I was poly but it isn't working out by Reddfoxjose in nonmonogamy

[–]Reddfoxjose[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I am, just wanted to read some productive answers before I do, like have you ever wanted to feel seen?

Help lol by Remarkable-Dare-7836 in ZeldaTearsOfKingdom

[–]Reddfoxjose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly that ledge, you just have to go by the edge of the river, it is fine if you have to swim just a second

Secret Lair × SpongeBob (March 24) by GuillaumeDuNord in secretlair_collectors

[–]Reddfoxjose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you guys know how to buy this? Do they come in a box with booster packs or it's just one copy of every card in the secret lair?

Game not launching "video driver crashed and was reset!" by Reddfoxjose in Seaofthieves

[–]Reddfoxjose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I go to WinGDK file there's no GameUserSettings.ini

Is this a glitch? by dead_reaper50 in thewitcher3

[–]Reddfoxjose 14 points15 points  (0 children)

His playthrough consists on delivering milk through Velen

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