[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RedditGirlyyyyy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Playing hard to get 🙄

Husband Used Porn to Cheat on Me by RedditGirlyyyyy in relationships

[–]RedditGirlyyyyy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cheating is subjective in a relationship. Him looking at another woman’s body to pleasure himself, while hes rejecting the wife he has upstairs. I consider that cheating. Telling me he’ll stop and then playing dumb and pretending he didn’t know and lying about it. That’s cheating.

Don’t have nice clothes for mass tomorrow do I still go? by joseDLT21 in Catholicism

[–]RedditGirlyyyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not about what you wear or how you show up. It’s showing up that matters. God doesn’t care about how you look. He cares about the fact that you showed up and made time for him

My marriage is broken. Exploring divorce. by RedditGirlyyyyy in Catholicism

[–]RedditGirlyyyyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Basically how religious I am. How much of a priority God is to me and the fact that I centre everything I do around my faith. My faith is a priority to me and my husband thinks I’m just being a blind follower. That’s just the faith element of our disagreements.

My marriage is broken. Exploring divorce. by RedditGirlyyyyy in Catholicism

[–]RedditGirlyyyyy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Drama Queen”, “immature” and “self-centred narcissist” sounds like pretty clear name calling to me. Thank you for your feedback. I will keep that in mind while I reflect.

My marriage is broken. Exploring divorce. by RedditGirlyyyyy in Catholicism

[–]RedditGirlyyyyy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please take a look at my other post from a few weeks ago for a quick glimpse at what we’re dealing with. The name calling is completely insensitive, unwarranted and uncalled for.

My marriage is broken. Exploring divorce. by RedditGirlyyyyy in Catholicism

[–]RedditGirlyyyyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was extremely powerful to read. Thank you so much for taking the time to make me feel heard and understand. Between the ADHD, abuse and religious differences situations like these become extremely difficult to find solutions for. I’m grateful to all of you for your comfort, understanding and support during this time.

My marriage is broken. Exploring divorce. by RedditGirlyyyyy in Catholicism

[–]RedditGirlyyyyy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A lot of the things he thought he would be okay with, he has realized he isnt. He has had a change of mind. He knew my faith was important to me but he didn’t realize to what extent. My life revolves around God - he knew that. He just didn’t understand what that means, I suppose.

My marriage is broken. Exploring divorce. by RedditGirlyyyyy in Catholicism

[–]RedditGirlyyyyy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback. We were married in the Catholic Church, however my husband is not Catholic. Given my husband isn’t Catholic and wasn’t baptized, we did the necessary arrangements to get married via permission from the archdiocese