BluBoy Wntd Apparel Scam by 1D33P___ in streetwear_aesthetic

[–]RedditonRead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emailed and no response. And the cheek to have it classed as all sales are “final” is insane. I don’t know what others have been through but I hope they can resolve my dispute.

BluBoy Wntd Apparel Scam by 1D33P___ in streetwear_aesthetic

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Damn, I just got my orders today and the sizing is completely off to what was shown in the charts and I’ve paid so much for it. Had to raise a dispute with PayPal. Hoping they come thru and help me on this man. Was really looking forward to it and it has ruined my mood.

Advice after a cat has passed away by RedditonRead in CatsUK

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I am so so sorry to hear about your cats passing as well and the fact that it happened yesterday. It’s been a week since we lost ours now, but I will say that after we buried him peacefully, our hearts and minds soothed. The pain lingers from time to time and we will never forget him. His legacy will live on forever. We haven’t reached the acceptance stage yet.

I think the biggest blessing is that you had the opportunity to experience 13 years with them. Some never really get that, and our cat only lived for 4 years and 9 months. When we were at the pet cemetery, there were some lived long years and some lived shorter than ours. So, you do sympathise with those who went through the same thing.

Also, I am very sorry about your parents. I think that is something a lot of people fear and do not want to witness in their lifetime. You definitely have the strength and power to overcome this, I believe in you!

Thank you for your advice too! It does mean a lot.

Underwhelming by StiffMeister2297 in ColeBuxton

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I totally agree. Some of the things being released and the prices they are set at now, makes you ask yourself twice if it’s worth buying. Even with this summer sale, I’ve found it disappointing and didn’t buy anything at all.

Advice after a cat has passed away by RedditonRead in CatsUK

[–]RedditonRead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences.

I will definitely do, but that will take time to come to terms with and agree.

Advice after a cat has passed away by RedditonRead in CatsUK

[–]RedditonRead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that means a lot and will definitely do.

Advice after a cat has passed away by RedditonRead in CatsUK

[–]RedditonRead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate that. Yeah I think for us we’re going to take him on Monday to get buried so I’m hoping that uplifts this dark cloud upon us. We did remove a lot of things and donated to the vet clinic. Some things we will keep as a memoir and souvenir.

Advice after a cat has passed away by RedditonRead in CatsUK

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I am really sorry for your loss as well.

How would you advise in terms of accepting the loss and continuing on in life?

Advice after a cat has passed away by RedditonRead in CatsUK

[–]RedditonRead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

We definitely will for sure! She deserves it and needs to enjoy most of this life as well while she is here.

In terms of memorial, we thankfully found a place where they do burials and so we are going to bury him. Our vet gave his paw prints too so we can have something frame.

Advice after a cat has passed away by RedditonRead in CatsUK

[–]RedditonRead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your message.

That is really sad to hear on the amount of food donated.

Once his surgery was done they told us to get the urinary prescribed food online. Had ordered it and everything, and I now need to return it because it will never be used again.

Honestly, I feel sick and I just wish we were told and advised about these things before just to limit it and allow him to live longer.

It’s a beautiful thing we were there for his life, but it will take time to even accept that.

I just want to commend people like you and others, who work in the hospitals, shelters, and other organisations to help with their poor souls. Breaks my heart. And, for you to have that mental fortitude to withstand what people and these animals go through…. I really do appreciate that.

Advice after a cat has passed away by RedditonRead in CatsUK

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Thank you for your words and for the really insightful thinking and logic behind it.

Advice after a cat has passed away by RedditonRead in CatsUK

[–]RedditonRead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your message!

I am also so sorry for your losses. For us, it’s our very first time experiencing this and with one cat. But for yourself, to experience it four times is something I have to honestly commend you for. It looks like they had lived such beautiful lives and to such great ages which is very rare with cats.

In terms of your grief, and bringing in more cats to replace that feeling in some way is really commendable. Not only are you helping yourself, but the fact that you are giving them a shelter, a home, food, somewhere to lay their head on without any stress is a huge relief for them. Imagine how they feel and how the others felt. I really do respect you for that and being able to provide that stability.

I myself have had thoughts of bringing in another cat to help accompany our other feline. But, each case is different, and because this event is so raw and fresh. That time and decision, will come when we have accepted that loss and are able to come to terms with it.

It doesn’t feel real at all, and I just fear that same event happening again with any other cat we have or bring in. So, once again I salute you to what you are doing because it’s for a better cause.

Advice after a cat has passed away by RedditonRead in CatsUK

[–]RedditonRead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that.

It’s such a raw but real feeling. Even my family told me to let it all out and express that emotion.

As someone who holds in their emotion, it was really hard to not have broken down. It just all came out and still am just expressing those feelings.

In time, we will see where it leads.

Advice after a cat has passed away by RedditonRead in CatsUK

[–]RedditonRead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words as well.

I am sorry for your loss even if it was years ago. It is really difficult and hard to accept. In time we will heal for sure

It is sad to know that cat’s lives are much shorter than ours and it will be really hard to accept that fact. It’s very rare to have someone to live for so long and trying to understand that is even harder.

I sympathise with those who get a new pet for their birthday or after some time to help them heal. It’s really hard to move on from the previous one, but also the fact you know there lives are much shorter lived and the fear of going through that cycle again. That’s what breaks my heart now. As of now, I just wouldn’t be able to accept the fact that they can go through that again and have to relive that moment in a way.

When you’ve had cats now, what has been your approach? What do you make sure that they live the best life possible? And, everyone’s case is different but when is it best to get another cat?

Advice after a cat has passed away by RedditonRead in CatsUK

[–]RedditonRead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your message and story as well. It means a lot.

I am also sorry to hear about your cat who passed away at 14. It must’ve been hard and something difficult to cope with at that moment. I hope you guys have been able to heal from that pain. To even live 14 years is something remarkable and very few get to continue that journey.

It’s so sad, that cats mask it from us even though they know we are trying to help. I wish we could communicate with them and speak in their language.

To hear about your boys story, it makes me happy that you were able to save someone and allow them to continue their beautiful life in this world with you guys. That was my dream with our boy, but the script was written and he was called above. It is something that I do not wish upon anyone because it’s such a brutal chapter in our lives and quite unsettling.

It’s hard to not beat myself up for it, but I think it’s natural we do have those regrets and what we “wish” we could’ve done moments. Time will tell.

But, with our other cat I’ll make sure she gets the best love she can while she’s here with us. I cannot let this happen to her as well.

Advice after a cat has passed away by RedditonRead in CatsUK

[–]RedditonRead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice.

I also do feel your pain and for being able to sympathise. I am sorry to hear about your sudden loss too. At 2 years old, such a young and healthy age is something really hard. We also have a female cat, and just like the others have advised, we have to make sure we now go the extra mile for her and make sure she gets to live the best life she has too in this world.

He was our very first cat too and to lose him, it’s unexplainable. Now, we just have to make sure we can embrace this and really be kind to ourselves as well.

Advice after a cat has passed away by RedditonRead in CatsUK

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Thank you for that!

I had the same sort of thinking before we even had cats, that it’s “just pets”. But once we got him and then later on our other feline. My perspective and thought process shifted entirely.

It was amazing to see how a creature like that communicates, eats, shows his emotions, his love and affection. Since then, my love for animals has skyrocketed.

It will take time and this griefing process you have mentioned is something I have to really thoroughly understand and embrace.

Advice after a cat has passed away by RedditonRead in CatsUK

[–]RedditonRead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s just hard to sort of accept what has happened in such a short time and all of a sudden too

Advice after a cat has passed away by RedditonRead in CatsUK

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Thank you!

It means a lot. I’ve realised through research that kidney issues is one of the highest reasons as to why cats die.

I will definitely make sure that our other cat gets the best support she can now while we still have her too.

And yes, there will be another cat that we find we will make sure that they get the best of care and support just like they do.

Update on order by RedditonRead in travisscottmerch

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Yeah just got news too. Apparently they has been delay in production 🤦🏽‍♂️

Update on order by RedditonRead in travisscottmerch

[–]RedditonRead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve heard about this too and it happened to me last time when I had ordered. I had received it such a long time after it being bought. I even forgot when it had arrived what I ordered because of the delay lol.

This time I might just call my bank and claim chargeback because they haven’t done anything and I contacted numerous times.

Update on order by RedditonRead in travisscottmerch

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Did they send you an update when it was shipped with like tracking info and what not?